Stacey

Hello pet, I know how much your heart is breaking. I lost my mam October 2007 and I still cannot come to terms with it. I lost my husband 15 weeks ago and all the pain is more than doubled. What you need to remember is that she loved you and would be saddened to see you so upset. She is in a better place, painfree and happy. Dont spoil that happiness by looking down on you and seeing how you are not coping with your loss. Make her even happier by letting her see you missing her but still managing to get on with your life. You will meet her again and she will give you a damn good telling off if you spend all your days grieving instead of living. Hope this makes sense. Just wish I could take me own advice. Take care x

Pat Groom

May 16, 2009