Mary Orme

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Mary Orme

  • Joined:February '09
  • Location:Leeds
  • Age:46
  • Last Online:December 11, 2009

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Hi I'm mum to five children ages 24,21,17,4 and 6 months. On April 10th 2007 I had a darling little boy who only lived for 25hrs we called him Mackinnley and he had a chromasomal disorder trisomy13/Patau's syndrome. I went to the hospital because my baby was not moving very much and they told me he would be delivered that day,as he wasn't growing as he should be. I wasn't too worried as my eldest had been 7wks early and he was fine.Mackinnley would be born at 32wks. He was born by emergency c-section and the doctor told me he had a cleft lip and palate again not worried, then they said he had an ear that hadn't formed correctly and that he also had extra fingers and toes. I asked what they did with those and he said they just tie them and they just drop off. Okay we thought and went to see him he looked so cute in his yellow hat all pink and healthy breathing by himself so we left and went to sleep. The next morning the consultant told us he had a few more problems and it looked like a syndrome patau's otherwise known as trisomy 13. We tried to take it all in but when we were told he little chance of survival it kind of got a bit foggy. We finally got a print out from a nurse from the computer and realised how bad it was. We had Mackinnley baptised and hoped they could be wrong but they weren't and sadly his dad and I were holding him together when he fell asleep. The look of peace and contentment on his face as he fell asleep for the last time is one I will always remember, he was in no pain anymore and it was easy to see. The saddest thing of all is that trisomy 13 can be detected by scan. Mine said perfect for all major organs part of Mackinnley's brain was missing and this should have been noticed. We were told sorry what can we say by the nhs there's been a then he struggled to find the word human error I said and they agreed. I am so glad I had my darling little boy and wouldn't change it for the world.

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Hi pretty lady!
You have been considered 1 of 10
prettiest ladies with a kind warm &loving heart.
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If you get hit again you know you are really pretty and kind x

x love as always lindi x

October 4, 2010

xxxxx ⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱♥⊰ xxxxx

An Angel in Your Pocket

I am a tiny angel ...
I'm smaller than your thumb
I live in people pockets
That's where I have fun
I don't suppose you've seen me
I'm too tiny to detect
Though I'm with you all the time
I doubt we've ever met

Before I was an Angel
I was a fairy in a flower
God, Himself hand-picked me
And give me Angel power

Now God has many Angels
That He trains in Angel pools
we become His eyes, and ears, and hands
We become His specials tools

And because God is so busy
With way too much to do
He said that my assignment
Was to keep close watch on you

Then He tucked me in your pocket
Blessing you with Angel care
Saying I must never leave you
And I vowed to stay right here !

xxxxx ⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱♥⊰ xxxxx

love as always lindi xxx

October 1, 2010

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☆ To make you smile
☆ When you feel blue
☆ To make you happy
☆ When your sad
☆ To let you know
☆ Life ain't so bad
☆ Now I've given a hug to you
☆ Somehow I feel much better too
☆ Hugs are better when they're shared

lot's of love alway's lindi xxx

September 23, 2010

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SENT WITH LOVE & HUGS XX

September 22, 2010

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A SIMPLE HUG
by Johnny Ray Ryder Jnr

There's something in a simple hug that always warms the heart.

it welcomes us back home and makes it easier to part.

A hug's a way to share the joy and sad times we go through,

or just a way for friends to say they like you 'cause you're you.

Hugs are meant for anyone, for whom we really care,

from your grandma to your neighbor, or a cuddly teddy bear.

A hug is an amazing thing. It's just the perfect way

to show the love we're feeling but can't find the words to say.

It's funny how a little hug makes everyone feel good

in every place and language, it's always understood.

And hugs don't need new equipment, special batteries or parts

just open up your arms and open up your hearts.



Please keep this hug going.

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my love as always lindi xxx

March 16, 2010
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