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Lisa Stacey

  • Joined:October '09
  • Location:Surrey
  • Age:34
  • Last Online:July 30, 2012

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I am mummy to 3 beautiful girls Kirsty 10, Ashleigh 6 and Angel who sadly wasnt for this world x i tried so hard to keep her safe but my body failed her after fighting for more than an hour to stay with us she fell back to sleep.Not a day goes by that i dont think of her and wish for time to go back so that i can hold her again. Im sure she watches over us all and i know one day i will get to hold her tight again x



You ask me how I'm feeling,
but do you really want to know?
The moment I try telling you
You say you have to go

You ask me how I'm holding up,
but do you really care?
The second I try to speak my heart,
You start squirming in your chair.

Because I am so lonely,
you see, no one comes around,
I'll take the words I want to say
And quietly choke them down.

Everyone avoids me now,
Because they don't know what to say
They tell me I'll be there for you,
then turn and walk away.

Call me if you need me,
that's what everybody said,
But how can I call you and scream
into the phone,
My God, my child is dead?

I am tired of pretending
as my heart pounds in my chest,
I say things to make you comfortable,
but my soul finds no rest.

How can I tell you things
that are too sad to be told,
of the helplessness of holding a child
who in your arms grows cold?

Maybe you can tell me,
How should one behave,
who's had to follow their childs casket,
watched it perched above a grave?

You cannot imagine
what it was like for me that day
to place a final kiss upon that box,
and have to turn and walk away.

If you really love me,
and I believe you do,
if you really want to help me,
here is what I need from you.

Sit down beside me,
reach out and take my hand,
Say "My friend, I've come to listen,
I want to understand."

Just hold my hand and listen
that's all you need to do,
And if by chance I shed a tear,
it's alright if you do to.

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thank you so much for cerys gift on her memorial page xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

April 12, 2010

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For All You Do ◦˚◦ ★

★ ◦˚◦ Thank you so much for all you do;
★ ◦˚◦ You're truly a delight;
★ ◦˚◦ When my life overwhelms and does me in,
★ ◦˚◦ You make everything all right.
★ ◦˚◦ I want to tell you "Thank you,"
★ ◦˚◦ But it doesn’t seem enough.
★ ◦˚◦ Words don’t seem sufficient--
★ ◦˚◦"Blah, blah" and all that stuff.
★ ◦˚◦ Please know I have deep feelings
★ ◦˚◦ About your generous act.
★ ◦˚◦ I really appreciate you;
★ ◦˚◦ You’re special, and that’s a fact!



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- Author Unknown –

I would just like to say a big thankyou for all you done for Stacey on her Angel Day the candles, tributes, pictures and gifts that were left by everyone just goes to show how kind and thoughtful people are,
Thankyou so much

Lots of Love Always Sharon & Family xxx

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HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL FAMILY,IM SURE YOUR PRECIOUS ANGEL IS BRIGHTLY SHINING ABOVE YOU ALL EVERY DAY, WISHING YOU HAPPIER TIMES THIS YEAR BABE LOVE CATHY XXXXX

Hi Lisa just wanted to say sorry for your loss your baby girl is so precious,she is truely amazing im so glad she stayed with you for a while,even though you would give anything to have her now.The pain is horrendous and doesnt go away,just eases a bit i think as life slowly moves forward,i lost my Kirsty july 3rd and it seems like yrs ago sometimes and weve still not passed her due date which is very soon,i dont know how i will get through it.Im lucky ive got my 2 boys to keep me busy,i thank God for that. Anyway i hope things for you and your beautiful family are well and if you need a chat im here anytime hunni, my love to you and your amazing Angel,good luck, Cathy xxxxx

I am so sorry for your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.xxx

October 31, 2009
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