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Karen Hancox

  • Joined:August '08
  • Location:Banbury, Oxfordshire
  • Last Online:November 3, 2012

About me

Neil and I, after being together for many years, got married in August 2005 and our precious baby, Kayleigh was due 9th November 2007.

Our world fell apart five days before Kayleigh's due date, when I had gone into hospital, in labour, but they couldn't find my baby's heartbeat. She had died.

I will never understand why Kayleigh was taken from us, and why we never got to meet her. I can only trust in God, that it was meant to be this way, and that he wanted her for a special Angel. I know i am lucky that i have my own special Angel watching over me, and my loved ones.

We hope to have a brother or sister for Kayleigh one day soon. My new life is slowly building and i owe so very much to those around me, who have offered their support to me, and walked with me on this long, hard journey of grief.

Sadly, we have learnt that we are now part of a club that no-one wants to be part of, but there are more members of that club than anyone would want to imagine.

Here's to all those Angels up there, safe from harm,and here's hoping that they all know how much they are loved and missed.

Updated 2011: We have been so very blessed , as we now have Charleigh Grace, our second daughter born 21.12.09 and Konnor born 12.07.11. But there will always be a Kayleigh-shaped hole in our hearts and family.

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Hi Karen, I am thinking of you and Kayleigh so much, Sunday will be a good day it will also bring about some sad emotions. I suppose I cannot understand what you are going through in your heart but I feel for you with love. Kayleigh must be so proud of her baby sister Charleigh and so proud of you too.
You are an amazing mum....all my love Debi x

February 10, 2010

A SMILE FOR YOU

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Smiling is infectious you catch it like the flu
When someone smiled at me today i started smiling too
I passed around the corner and someone saw my grin
When he smiled i realized i'd passed it on to him
I thought about that smile then i realized its worth
A single smile just like mine could travel round the earth
So if you feel a smile begin dont leave it undetected
Lets start an epidemic quick and get the world infected

Keep the smile going by sending it to a FRIEND
EVERYONE NEEDS A SMILE !!!!!!

March 2, 2009

God doesn't give you the people you want, He gives you the people you NEED - To help you, to hurt you, to leave you, to love you and to make you into the person you were meant to be. Dear God: The lady reading this is beautiful, classy and strong, and I love her. Help her live her life to the fullest. Please promote her and cause her to excel above her expectations. Help her shine in the darkest places where it is impossible to love. Protect her at all times, lift her up when she needs you the most, and let her know when she walks with you, She will always be safe. Now you're on the clock!!!! In 9 minutes something will make you happy. But you have to tell 9 sisters you love them, including me. Go!!!!

December 18, 2008

♥ My Friend ♥



♥ Iv written a poem ♥
♥ sealed with a kiss ♥
♥ if your my friend answer me this ♥

♥ Are we friends or are we not ♥
♥ you told me once but i forgot ♥

♥ so tell me now ♥
♥ and tell me true ♥

♥ so you can say im here for you ♥
♥ of all the friends ive ever met ♥
♥ your the one i wont forget ♥

♥ And if i die before you do ♥
♥ Ill go to heaven an wait for you ♥

♥ send this to everyone you consider as a friend ♥

♥ JUST LIKE I HAVE ♥

November 28, 2008

your welcome take care x

November 18, 2008
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