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Jacky Schoombie

  • Joined:January '09
  • Location:South Africa
  • Age:26
  • Last Online:October 1, 2009

About me

Hi my name is Jacquiline, i am 25 and my Husban Juan is also 25, we have know each other now 13years and been married for 2.
On the 15th of November 2006 I was confirmed at 6weeks and 6days pregnant and it was the biggest joy in my life.. On the 2nd of December 2006 we found out we were expecting twins and WOW now that was a huge blessing for us.. We got married on the 16th of December 2006 and it was the most amazing day of my life as i had my twins in my belly with me that day... On the 23 of December we were informed that one of the twins was dissapearing but our other little ANGEL was doing very well... So CJ brother/sister dissapeared at 3months...

My pregnancy was very stressful as i didn't have alot of support from the other side of the family and it was tough for me and my husband...
At 22 weeks i was not feeling to well and i had alot of swelling and lightheaded and just plain not feeling well, i was diagnosed with pre-eclampsia due to me gaining alot of weight during my first few weeks. My blood pressure was extremely high and some days i so saw the little lights flashing around my head.

On the EVE of the 10th of JUNE 2007 at 8pm i started getting slight cramps i thought it was from all the fruit i had eaten that day... But by 11pm i was in alot of pain and my husband said no to the hospital we will go and at 12pm my waters broke as i walked out of my houses door....

I was rushed into hospital screaming from the pain.. it felt like my belly was being gutted open from the inside....

I was scheduled for a c-section but my doctor only showed up at 9:30am that morning to perform my c-section after i fainted in the passage of the hospital at 6am that morning... In my heart of hearts i knew something was wrong... I could feel it deep inside....

My SON CJ was born at 9:38am 11 June 2007 sleeping and at that point my heart had stopped and i started having fits.... GO figure i had a placental UBRUPTURE that morning when i fainted in the hospital at 6am....

I woke up 3days later in ICU only to find out my son had passed away and the funeral was already arranged... I had the choice to see my child but everyone even my husband had advized me not to see him as he was not beautiful anymore.... So i opted not to see my child...

It has now been almost 2years since we lost our baby boy at 37weeks and 2days.... And it has been an uphill battle of CLOMID and METFORMIN and even seeking help from a homeopath....

This is my story thank you for reading. Be blessed and be fruitful.



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I know the uphill battle you have had, I am going through the same. I hope nobody has to go through this pain again as it is soul destroying. The only thing I can imagine is that our babies were sent just to save our lives and God took them to look out for each other.
Hope every day is getting less painful for you and you get your dreams and wishes xx

April 15, 2009
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