Jackie Kwasnik

Hi jackie thanks for your lovely message, I am so glad my sister inspired you to this site because it really seems to help. When we first lost our darling Robert I found myself writing messages 2 or 3 times a day as I felt it brought me closer to Robert. However I think it became a bit of an obsession so I do it less but naturally think about him all the time. Life will never be the same for us, especially Judi his mum and his sisters. Rob was like a son to me and I can truly say the light went out for me on that dreaded day not forgetting my lovely parents who doted on Robert. I knew Howard and always had the greatest respect for him, infact I always fancied him but thats a secret!!! Due to his passing I am now back intouch with Debby and her family which is nice(but for sad reasons) At the shiva house it broke my heart to see Tony and Gussie, lets face it no parent should ever bury their child. Believe me when I say that our boys are in a better place, and I truly believe that but it doesn't take away the void we feel. I hope to meet you one of these days and have a natter and a coffee. Be well and happy, love Heli xxxxx

Heli

January 18, 2009

Hi jackie my name is Helen saffer and I was a close friend of Debbys years ago and of course knew Howard very well. I do understand the devastation you feel with Howards loss and this site is a wonderful thing in my opinion, as my nephew Robert Frankenthal was killed 3 yrs ago and he is also on this site and its been a great comfort to us all. All I can say is the good must die young or I wouldnt be able to make sense of these terrible losses. I wish you and all your family health and happiness. Love Helen xxxx

Heli

January 18, 2009