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I shall be on holiday from Sunday 25th Oct for a week thank you to all my friends for keeping my angels in the light. xx


PLEASE READ PLEASE READ 11th OCTOBER

THANK YOU EVERY ONE WHO LEFT GIFTS TRIBUTES AND CANDLES FOR MY MUM TODAY ON HER ANGEL DAY, YOU ARE ALL SO KIND.
I'M TRYING MY BEST TO LIGHT CANDLES WHEN I'M ABLE TO BUT IT IS MY HUSBANDS BROTHERS FUNERAL TOMORROW AND WE ARE HAVING A PARTICULLY BAD TIME COPING WITH THINGS


7th October

Please forgive me if I have not lit for your angels, This is a very difficult time for me it will soon be my grandchildren's 3rd angel anniversary 26th October.

My Mum's angel anniversary is on 11th October

Last October my husband had a heart attack.

Then yesterday my husbands brother died, I am trying to light my candles but can't seem to concentrate..

I HATE OCTOBER AND AM FINDING THINGS SO DIFFICULT I HOPE TO GET BACK TO NORMAL AS QUICKLY AS POSSIBLE BUT UNTIL THEN I WILL COME ON WHEN I FEEL ABLE TO COPE.

Love Ingrid xx


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If your going on holiday
In the October school break
Please take a detector
And keep your self safe

Think Carbon Monoxide
And what it can do
This silent gas kills
Don't let it kill you

I don't mean to alarm
But this what I must do
I owe it to my grandchildren
And as my friend I owe it to you

Copyright© Ingrid Aspey 1/10/09




My name is Ingrid, Welcome to my garden.

On 26th Oct 2006 my grandchildren died of carbon monoxide poisoning whilst on holiday in Corfu with thier Daddy.

Until the EU change the law so all hotels have to have their boilers inspected annually by a corgi registered inspector as they have to be in this country, I would ask every parent to take a carbon monoxide detector with them when they go on holiday.

Most of us have a fire alarm in our homes because we are aware of the dangers of fire.

We should all be carbon monoxide aware and have a carbon monoxide detector fitted too.

If you don't have one fitted in your home please give it some thought, much better to be safe than sorry.


You cannot see it, smell it or taste it - but Carbon Monoxide (CO) can kill you. The elderly and young are at higher risk than healthy adults.


Carbon Monoxide (CO) is a toxic gas which can be emitted from any faulty heating or cooking appliance, petrol generator, or vehicle engine. CO can be emitted from any appliance burning combustible fuel e.g. gas (mains or bottled), solid fuel (coal, wood, etc) petrol, oil, paraffin. CO cannot be sensed using human senses. Special equipment, such as a flue gas analyzer, is needed to test appliances and/or the air in a room for CO. CO can poison in tiny amounts because it is taken up in preference to oxygen by the haemoglobin (the oxygen carrying part) in the blood. Less than 2% of CO in the air can kill in two minutes. Low level exposure of CO over a long period can cause brain and neurological damage.

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I wrote this poem after a particularly bad experience I had with someone I considered to be a close friend.


Betrayal Of A Confidence



To betray a friends confidence

is way below the belt

Having no compassion

for how that person felt



Betrayal of a confidence

cuts so very deep

So think before you gossip

don’t you find it hard to sleep?



You may need a friend

yourself some day

To tell your troubles to

Imagine how you’d feel

If they did the same to you



People say you live and learn

I certainly did with you

I’ll be more careful in the future

Who I tell my troubles to

copyright© Ingrid Aspey 3/8/09



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love always liz xxxx

Thank you Ingrid
The poem could have been specially written for our Kevin but like you suggest, it is probably best not to use it.
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Last night

THE FRIENDSHIP ROSE::::::::::::::

JUST LIKE A ROSE SO PRECIOUS AND RARE,
IS THE FOREVER FRIENDSHIP THE TWO OF US SHARE.

PLANTED WITH KINDNESS, IT IS WARMED BY THE SUN,
OF CARING AND SHARING LAUGHTER AND FUN.

ITS GROUND IN TRUST AND NURTURED BY LOVE,
WITH A SPRINKLING OF GRACE FROM GOD UP ABOVE.

TEARS OF SADNESS AND JOYLIKE DEW,
RENEW THIS FRIENDSHIP, I SHARE WITH YOU.

THANK YOU FOR BEING A WONDERFUL FRIEND.
LOTS OF LOVE LINDA.XXX
HAVE A GOOD WEEKEND.XXX

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I think im very lucky
That i found a friend like you
A friend thats always there for me
And ill be there for you
My friend you make me happy
When im feeling blue
Im going to thank God now
That i found a friend in you xxx



copyright© Vicky Deaville 2009
Thank you so much for all you do for my brother Royboy love Sara xxx

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TAKE CARE LOVE MARGO XX

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