About me
Was married to Jeff for 24 ½ years, we had 2 daughters kayleigh who is now 23, and Carrie who is 20, we also have 3 grand children aged 4 18 months and 10 weeks.
Jeff was the love of my life. I am completely alone now in this world, I Know I have the girls, the grand kids and some very good friends. But its just not the same with out him no one to come home to to cuddle up with to yell at me or me him. So now all i am now left with is a big blackness of nothingness, years of being alone, struggling emotionally, with no light at the end of the tunnel.
DECEMBER 24TH 2008 UP DATE ON TREE
the pictures on my page are taken of my christmas tree this year deadicated to all lost love ones called "THE TREE OF LOVE"
the following names are on the tree
Jeff Garrington 46
Baby Isaac Lofkin 0
Baby Aliyah...1984.
Mavis Townsend 37
Mary Taylor
Ann Townsend 88
Arthur Townsend 68
Albert Gibbons 69
Gladis Gibbons 75
Bill Perry 56
Mohan Singh 49
Satnam Singh 39
Narjinjan Kaur - 60
Gurmej Kaur - 65
Sadhu Singh - 70.
Nellie Jeffs 71
Stu lunn 45
Edna Johnson
Reg Johnson
Sid Hall 63
Gladys foxall 62
Brett Felton
Dad Mick
Granddad Arthur
Step Nan. Annie
Rita Taylor
Terry Taylor
Granddad Gibbons 25/12/1975
Nana Gibbons 74
William Perry march 1945
Rich 26
To all the Perkins & Alldricks that have gone before and all the friends we have known.
thank you for alowing me to put your angels on my Christmas tree i feel very humbled.....xxxxxxxxxxx
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----♥♥-♥♥--- -On Your
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---♥♥---♥♥-- -You Know
---♥♥---♥♥-- -Someone
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---♥♥---♥♥-- --You Love
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YOU and GOD - by Mother Teresa
People are often unreasonable,
irrational, and self-centered;
Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse
you of selfish, ulterior motives;
Be kind anyway.
If you are successful, you will win some
unfaithful friends and some genuine enemies;
Succeed anyway.
If you are honest and sincere
people may deceive you;
Be honest and sincere anyway.
What you spend years creating
others could destroy overnight;
Create anyway.
If you find serenity and happiness,
some may be jealous;
Be happy anyway.
The good you do today,
will often be forgotten.
Do good anyway.
Give the best you have,
and it may never be enough;
Give your best anyway.
In the final analysis,
it is between you and God;
It was never between you and them anyway.
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had this sent me thought it was lovley
NEED WASHING??
A little girl had been shopping with her Mom in Target. She must have been 6 years old, this beautiful red haired, freckle faced image of innocence. It was pouring outside. The kind of rain that gushes over the top of rain gutters, so much in a hurry to hit the earth it has no time to flow down the spout. We all stood there under the awning and just inside the door of the Target.
We waited, some patiently, others irritated because nature messed up their hurried day. I am always mesmerized by rainfall. I got lost in the sound and sight of the heavens washing away the dirt and dust of the world. Memories of running, splashing so carefree as a child came pouring in as a welcome reprieve from the worries of my day.
The little voice was so sweet as it broke the hypnotic trance we were all caught in 'Mom let's run through the rain,' she said.
'What?' Mom asked.
'Let's run through the rain!' She repeated
'No, honey. We'll wait until it slows down a bit,' Mom replied.
This young child waited about another minute and repeated: 'Mom, let's run through the rain,'
'We'll get soaked if we do,' Mom said.
'No, we won't, Mom.. That's not what you said this morning,' the young girl said as she tugged at her Mom's arm.
This morning? When did I say we could run through the rain and not get wet?
'Don't you remember? When you were talking to Daddy about his cancer, you said, 'If God can get us through this, he can get us through anything!'
The entire crowd stopped dead silent. I swear you couldn't hear anything but the rain. We all stood silently... No one came or left in the next few minutes.
Mom paused and thought for a moment about what she would say. Now some would laugh it off and scold her for being silly. Some might even ignore what was said. But this was a moment of affirmation in a young child's life. A time when innocent trust can be nurtured so that it will bloom into faith.
'Honey, you are absolutely right. Let's run through the rain. If GOD let's us get wet, well maybe we just needed washing,' Mom said.
Then off they ran. We all stood watching, smiling and laughing as they darted past the cars and yes, through the puddles. They held their shopping bags over their heads just in case. They got soaked. But they were followed by a few who screamed and laughed like children all the way to their cars.
And yes, I did.. I ran. I got wet. I needed washing.
Circumstances or people can take away your material possessions, they can take away your money, and they can take away your health. But no one can ever take away your precious memories....So, don't forget to make time and take the opportunities to make memories everyday. To everything there is a season and a time to every purpose under heaven.
I HOPE YOU STILL TAKE THE TIME TO RUN THROUGH THE RAIN.
