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hi emma my baby buried in chadd in the old bit the path lending from the chapel we was the last baby to be buried their then the new baby garden opened its better in summer its open late we took the kids up last sunday then i went up tuesday to take photos of the snow watch your items on your grave i have things move and put on someone else grave
Hello Ema, im sorry i have only just seen your message.
Youll have prob read that my little one had Edwards too. Yes, it is the most heart wrenching decision you will ever have had to make. The pain is unbearable isnt it. But, we made our decisions because we loved our little ones, they would have endured pain and distress and we as mummies would not have wanted that. We allowed our little ones to become angels in a safe and warm place wrapped in love... in our tummies. We took on their pain ourselves so we could set them free. We will always carry that pain but it will get easier. Ive cried a million tears. Im happy to chat, it helps to talk, to hear you babies names.
I joined a forum for mummies who have lost babies, you will prob know about it http://www.uk-sands.org/
there is lots of support there where you can talk and not feel like you are going mad, that the feelings and emmotions you have are real. Its a good place to cry, shout and laugh.
Its xmas now, a difficult time for a lot of people. Be gentle on yourself and take care.
warm hugs
cathy
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