Donna Hayes

I wish I could see you one more time come walking through my door, but I know that is impossible
I will hear your voice no more. I know you can feel my tears and you don’t want me to cry, yet my heart is broken because I can’t understand why
someone so precious had to die. I pray that God will give me strength and somehow get me through as I struggle with this heartache from when I lost you.


In life we loved you dearly in death we do the same, we little knew that morning that God would call your name. It broke our hearts to lose you you did not go alone, for part of us went with you the day God called you home. You left us peaceful memories your love is still our guide, and though we cannot see you you are always at our side. Our family chain is broken and nothing seems the same, but as God calls us one by one the chain will link again xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

My brother died in a motorbike accident at the age of 22 a year and a half ago. I asked him each night before I went to sleep to come and see me in my dreams. When I went to see a spiritual medium he told me that I had been asking my brother to appear to me in my dream, he said that he couldn't at that time but he would when he could and when I was truly ready. A few months later I got my meeting with my brother. We used to smoke and chat in our mum and dad's garage and that was the place he used for the meeting in my dream. I went from having any normal dream to flicking to a new one as if the channel had been changed on a tv. I opened the door and walked into the garage not really knowing why I was there and he was stood there in his biker gear smiling at me. I broke down and cried and babbled on and on in fits of tears about how much I loved him and how much I missed him, he put his arms around me and hugged me and told me he's ok. I didn't have another for a while but I have had four over the last two weeks. He comes with reassurance and hugs, he is sad that i'm sad but without words he gives me the feeling that he is ok. People have different opinions about whether these dreams are actually our souls meeting or whether they are our brains working overtime, I know what I believe xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx