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As i said i was wrong to include pictures of him..with you, but as for making the memorial..i have the right to mourn and remember him how i see fit as he was my partner. Its been so long since coming on here as my computer has been down and i've just checked private messages. I'm really saddened that you felt the need to message another site user and show dis-respect to that person. This is a peaceful and beautiful site, the people are lovely and kind. To involve others is unfair.
I can only re-iterate what i said, i make it very clear your dad did many wrong things, but there is so much you do not know, and simply couldn't know as yourself, your mum and Pamela where not in his life at the latter part, yes Pamela made contact after her thier mum passed on but this was not to last due to his passing. I have much respect for how your mum coped years ago when things where at there worst, and so yes she knew him best..at that time!. Its with regret that i'm going to cancel my account on here as it is not the place to be unpleasant, and is simply not necessary, no one is a liar, we all knew Dean at different times of his life, and knew him in different ways.
cont.. he simply couldn't cope with life. I spent nearly 7 yrs with your dad and many many happy times where shared, and yes also times that where distressing, but i loved him with all my heart. There are no rose tinted glasses..i'm well aware of what his faults were, but as these times where tainted by his addiction..i choose to remember him when he was really himself and that was the happy times. So again..apologies for any offence caused, but i will remember Dean how i knew him and celebrate the good that was in him and that he showed to me. take care.
Hi Chelsea, I'm sorry you feel that way, firstly your right in that i didn't think before putting pictures in my memorial that had you on them, i will delete them and apologies for this. All i can say to you is the Dean i knew and loved was far from perfect, i've never said he was, but he was a good man at heart and i stand by that, as you say he had problems, which he was the first to admit and many things happened that he was very ashamed of, but that is part of addiction. But i can assure you i do not lie..and absolutely would never have done so at his funeral!, his friends that where there all agreed with what i said, his genuine friends, not people like Steve (your mum will know who i mean) and it was from the heart, its by no means your fault but you did not know your dad in later years, i know of the people he helped and the good things he DID do. Please just remember there are two sides to every story and whilst i know the terrible things that went on years ago..he was not always that man. What i said to you at his funeral was the truth..he adored you and was so sorry for all his wrong-doings....
hi chelsea im so sorry for the loss of your dear dad,he will be smiling down and sending his love to you,lots of love theresa x gts freind
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