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Cathy Mum Of Kirsty Porter

  • Joined:July '09
  • Location:Dublin
  • Age:32
  • Last Online:April 2, 2013

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Added:June 14th 2011
To all my beloved friends on GTS I am so proud to inform you that I have given birth to Kirstys baby brother Reece,he was born 4.4.11 almost 5wks early weighing 5lb 13oz and apart from some mucus he swallowed at birth he is doing just fine. I spent the last couple of months back in hospital as I was going into labour and it would just stop then,so painful,my doctor said I had an irretable uteris and after being home for a week my waters broke and 4hrs later I was holding my lil man,hes so cute. I wish his sister was here to share our happiness although I know she was looking after us both from above. Reece is now 10 weeks old and after 5 long weeks in hospital we finally have him home,everyday is a joy to spend with our son,I know deep down my Angel Kirsty was looking after us both all the way,she will forever be our baby girl and sister in Heaven. Reece could never replace my lil girl,im proud to say im a mother to 3 beautiful boys and a princess Angel in Heaven,my four children, all a part of me, and all a part of one another. I would like to Thank you all for your loving support and I look forward to catching up with you all, I keep you and your Angels in my prayers,God Bless, Love Cathy xxxxxxxxxxxx

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Hi im mum to Kirsty Porter my name is Cathy Denby,29 and i live in Dublin,Ireland.I have 2 wonderful sons Craig 10 and Sean 6,my partner is Ian Porter and we are a couple 11 and half yrs.We recently lost our daughter Kirsty when i was 16wks pregnant,she is a beautiful Angel.I suffered with severe hyperemisis since the beginning of the pregnancy and was really ill,its a condition which makes you very ill unable to drink water never mind eat food.I lost alot of weight and practically lived in the hospital,i also discovered at the age of 18 while pregnant with my 1st son that i had a Biocornuate uteris,basically i have 2 wombs but in my case they are joined almost heart shaped.Doctors told me this could cause miscarriage and although i suffered alot of bleeding with my 1st pregnancy and the 2nd was a bit much the same but not as bad,i never miscarried and so when i lost my little princess on July 3rd 2009 i was devastated and always will be.Even though i was only in my 17th week i was shocked at how perfect she looked although she was tiny,im so glad i got to hold her and kiss her and give her a really nice but very sad funeral ceremony,her tiny coffin was 12 inches long. Kirsty never took a breath of life but i will always be proud to say i have a daughter who is a perfect little Angel.Her brothers are young and are really sad,its hard for them to understand,they got to see her and i think it helped them to realise why she had to go to Heaven with her being so small. Anyway thank you to all who send tributes and light candles for Kirsty,we appreciate it very much and to all those going through the loss of a baby,i know your pain.I hope God is looking after my baby girl and i hope that 1 day i will get to hold her again,she was a much wanted and loved baby with excited granmas,cousins,aunts family and friends and most of all me and her dad and 2 big brothers just waiting for her safe arrival,sadly it wasnt to be but we love her dearly may she REST IN PEACE Always and Forever Our Love For You Is Eternal.

MY BEAUTIFUL KIRSTY WAS DUE TO BE BORN DEC.16TH 2009, SADLY THIS WILL NEVER BE,REST IN PEACE BABY GIRLxxxxx

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Ah Cathy i was delighted when i logged on and seen your messags and of course your candle for my da .My ma has dementia she was in and out of hospital a lot and they told us we would not be able to bring her home that was so sad for us as we had done everything in our power to look after her but it was getting harder every day but we love her as we all love our mas and try anything to keep her at home .So in May she was accepted in The Royal Hospital in Donnybrook she is very comfortable and content T.G.she does not know us sometimes and Cathy she does not remember my da never thought i would see the day that would happen this part is the saddest of all i have to say.I could go on forever but for now Cathy i always keep you in my thoughts also Kirsty and Maria so God Bless you Cathy love Bernie x x x

January 27, 2013

Hi cathy I havnt spoke to you on here for 2 years and was looking back at our convasation! Since I spoke to you I did have a healthy little princess Aalyiah.y pregnancy was not a nice one looking back now I think maybe I tried to soon for her as worried sick the whole time cried was at hospital atleast once a week checking heartbeat! But I would never change her she is brilliant! She's 2 now and is a mini me! Lol after we had her we decided that we couldn't do it again so had a coil fitted and a year later I managed to fall pregnant with it fitted! And now also have my miracle baby Jayden Harry. No one could ever replace Harry as u no yourself! I do hope you and your family are well much love to you all and you angel xxxxxxxx

May 20, 2012

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December 21, 2011

Hi Cathy i am so sorry to hear about your cousin i will keep her in my prayers you have many crosses to carry you poor girl but you will always have a special angel watching out for you ,i was in tears reading your message and your mam as well its so hard i will always keep you and your family in my heart and my da will always look after Kirsty for you i know that with all my heart .Reece is absolutely massive long may you enjoy him they grow up so quick my son stephen is 22 friday week omg the years just fly Louise is 33 in november she does not come on any more it upsets her too much my ma and da reared her as i worked full time after she was about 4 so her granda was more like her da she is working away and driving his car .Well my dearest friend i will keep in touch i would talk for Ireland ha ha .Thank you so much for all the kind things you say about my da i really appreciate it .God Bless you and your family x x x

August 3, 2011

Just popped by to say hi, hope all is well. Reece is lush, bet you are really proud. Lots of love to you all xxxxxxxx

August 3, 2011
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