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Cathy Mum Of Kirsty Porter

Joined:July '09
Location:Dublin
Age:29
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Hi im mum to Kirsty Porter my name is Cathy Denby,29 and i live in Dublin,Ireland.I have 2 wonderful sons Craig 10 and Sean 6,my partner is Ian Porter and we are a couple 11 and half yrs.We recently lost our daughter Kirsty when i was 16wks pregnant,she is a beautiful Angel.I suffered with severe hyperemisis since the beginning of the pregnancy and was really ill,its a condition which makes you very ill unable to drink water never mind eat food.I lost alot of weight and practically lived in the hospital,i also discovered at the age of 18 while pregnant with my 1st son that i had a Biocornuate uteris,basically i have 2 wombs but in my case they are joined almost heart shaped.Doctors told me this could cause miscarriage and although i suffered alot of bleeding with my 1st pregnancy and the 2nd was a bit much the same but not as bad,i never miscarried and so when i lost my little princess on July 3rd 2009 i was devastated and always will be.Even though i was only in my 17th week i was shocked at how perfect she looked although she was tiny,im so glad i got to hold her and kiss her and give her a really nice but very sad funeral ceremony,her tiny coffin was 12 inches long. Kirsty never took a breath of life but i will always be proud to say i have a daughter who is a perfect little Angel.Her brothers are young and are really sad,its hard for them to understand,they got to see her and i think it helped them to realise why she had to go to Heaven with her being so small. Anyway thank you to all who send tributes and light candles for Kirsty,we appreciate it very much and to all those going through the loss of a baby,i know your pain.I hope God is looking after my baby girl and i hope that 1 day i will get to hold her again,she was a much wanted and loved baby with excited grannys,aunts,uncles,cousins,many friends and most of all me and her dad and 2 big brothers just waiting for her arrival,sadly it wasnt to be but we love her dearly may she REST IN PEACE always,from a heart broken mam who adores her little Angel KIRSTY PORTER XXXXX MY BEAUTIFUL KIRSTY WAS DUE TO BE BORN DEC.16TH 2009, SADLY THIS WILL NEVER BE,REST IN PEACE BABY GIRLxxxxx

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Hi Cathy

Sahra's due date was certainly very hard but I find every day hard. I don't think anyone can understand unless they have lost a child. It is just such a pain in your heart and a big void in your life.
I just try to get up each morning and put one foot in front of the other and hope that somehow I will get through the day.
thinking of you
Teena xx

Teena Trainor

14 hours ago

HEY CATHY, DON'T APOLOGISE, I HADN'T EVEN NOTICED MYSELF!! DON'T WORRY, I'M VERY GRATEFUL FOR EVERYTHING YOU DO FOR ME HUN AND MY DAD AND NAN.
I'LL BE IN TOUCH OVER THE WEEKEND.
LOTS OF LOVE TO YOU ALWAYS XXXXXX

Amanda Williams

Thursday evening

Cathy.. I just wanted to say how grateful i am for the lovely tribute you left my little girl Bailey on her birthday.. It did leave me in tears to actually realise that after 4 years i have finally found people who kno, understand and realise how i feel.. For 4 years ive always felt so alone && in a way i was okay with that because it meant that no one else knew the pain i was going through.. Anyhow.. Im rambling..
Thankyou again so so much.. x x

Michelle Bailey'S Mummy

Tuesday evening

Sorry to hear you've not been feeling too good, i hope you are not finding things too difficult, today is a hard day for me as its 2 months since i lost archie, i've also been unwell with a chest infection so haven't been coming on much myself!
How is your cousin doing, i hope she is coping ok after losing her son, plz don't worry to much if you miss a candle or 2, i understand that sometimes people can't light them but i'm sure all the angels are never far from our minds!
you take care hun
love sam xxx

Samantha Parker

5 days ago

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Thank you for all you do for me and my angels, Sahra and her twin. It means the world to me that they are thought of by so many people all over the world.

Love Teena - Sahra and Sahrastwin's heartbroken Mummy xxxxx