About me
Hello ! My name is Stacy Gervais, I am Kevin's little sister. I am 27 years old. I am the mommy of two beautiful, healthy, happy children, Troy who will be 9, November 10 which is also Kevin's god son. Brynn who is 4 years old which never got a chance to meet her amazing Uncle Kevin. Kevin and I are only 2 years apart. Both born in December. We have gone through everthing together,good,bad,happy,sad. I don't think I would be the woman I am today if it wasn't for him pushing me the way he did. Honestly, at times it was annoying, I just didn't realize what his attentions were until I got older, now I respect what he has done for me. I hope I can do the same for my kids as he has done for me. He protected me from the rude, dangerous, nonsense world and certain family memebers, sad but very true. He let me make my mistakes but was right there next to me when it happen to help me understand that they were to be learned from not to be repeated. We stuck together through it all. We were a team, where ever he was, I was right there behind him. I don't have much family in my life, my choice, but I have a ton of awesome, honest, beautiful, friends who I do consider family and to me thats all I need. My life is pretty simple. Things have calmed down a lot since certain people moved out of our lives. I'll be honest, I am not always a cheerful happy person but I try my hardest to be for my children. I enjoy the simple things in life, like taking funny pictures of the kids, or taking a walk to the pond, fishing, haning out with my nephews and nieces, hanging out with my inlaws or even just dancing around the house like a bunch of goofs to Brittney Spears. I love people, I love to talk and write, if you haven't noticed that yet ! =) I am not hard to please at all and don't ask for much in life. All I want is happiness and with the way the world is today, it is pretty much impossible but I make it happen in my own little way. I am the first to help those in need, even if I don't know them, no matter how big or small it is, if I can do it, it will be done and if I have it, it's yours. I have a great guy in my life, Billy, he is my High School sweet heart. We have been through a lot together in the 12 years we have known each other, he is my best friend, my soul mate. I respect him for sticking around when I knew he wanted to bail and I would of never blamed him either. My family was very evil to us. One person just wanted and tried to see us fail in the worst way possible. Didn't happen, not going to happen. Kevin and my Hunny were also friends in High School. Kevin very much approved of him. Kevin always said he'd be the one to treat me right, so far so good. It hasn't been perfect, honestly who relationship is? We work together as a team and we stick together through everything that comes our way, we have an amazing love for eachother so it makes it a lot easier to be strong as a couple. That pretty much sums up of who I am now.
I have lost a lot of good people in my life. Some accidents, some natural causes. I grieve every day of my life. I think the worst death besides my brother was this little boy, Jeffery Curley in 1997, he was only 7 years old. He was murdered and raped by two young men that knew his family pretty well. That was such a very sad, devasting, day and situation. He went missing and they found his body almost a month later from a confession one of the young men made. He was put in a tote then thrown into a river. I have seen a lot of young people die, I feel horrible for the parents. As a parent all you do is try to be the best you can be and protect your child from any harm.
We just lost another friend of ours 9-13-08 to a accidental drowning, he was only 24 years old. RIP Steve Knowlton. It never gets any easier to deal with death only brings back all the bad heart ache memories of the previous loved ones that had passed. My cousins, nephew had just lost her new baby boy, Lucas on the 24th of Spetember, due to unknown cause. They got to spend only a day in half with him before his health declined for the worse and passed away. He was born very healthy. They are still trying to figure out what happen. They didn't even have a chance to take him home with them and enjoy their lil family they created. It was their first baby :( .. Jessica Finney, she was my neighbors daughter, which we became very close when I moved in. She died in a car accident, April 27, 2007, she was only 18. Her best friend was driving way to fast and hit a brick building on the passanger side. That has affected my family a lot, they moved away because the accident happen right around the corner of my house and they had to drive bye every day and the pain was to much to bare, so we lost some really good friends. I never thought my heart would be able to break so many times in one life time. It still hurts to know these kids didn't even get a chance in life. It makes you think that life is really precious, fragile, and unpredictable. Gets you thinking not to take anything for granted because it can honestly be gone the very next day ! Always kiss your kids and loved one good night and good bye, because you never know if that will be your very last kiss.
Rest In Peace to all that have lost their lives... I am just happy to know that all our angels are together, they are in such a better place, and they no longer suffer from any pain.
My heart goes out to all those who deal with the pain each and every day of their lives. If any one needs to talk I am here for you. My ears, eyes, and heart is always open to all.
I love to meet new people. If you have any questions, please feel free to write to me, I have no problem with answering anything.
Thank You for taking the time to read about me and my family. I appreciate it !!
