• The GoneTooSoon community forums will be offline until November while we implement major improvements. You will still be able to view any existing posts. During this time, the Technical Support Website Dicussion forums will still be available to report issues with GoneTooSoon and discuss the recent redesign. Apologies for the inconvenience, we will make every effort to have the forums back online as soon as possible.
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Community Terms of Use

Please Read Our Terms of Use

Our forums are regularly monitored. Please be respectful of where you are and remember that content that may be acceptable on other forums may not be so appropriate for a memorial website.



When posting in our forums, please do not:

  • Take part in arguments that are likely to offend other users and always respect other people’s opinions;

  • Use the Community to report abuse - click the “Report As Inappropriate” links instead on the relevant sections of the site;

  • Leave any of your personal details like telephone numbers, email address, or passwords;

  • Use the forum to advertise goods or services without the express permission of GoneTooSoon.

  • Use offensive language or words likely to offend others;

  • Continually "bump" threads that no other users are posting on

  • Use the for cyber bullying or any form of discrimination (ie racism, homophobia);

  • Post material that is libelous, harassing, inciting or insulting in nature;

  • Name or discuss individuals alleged or convicted of crimes connected with the deaths of those featured on this website;

  • Discuss and illegal items or activities;

  • Post material that infringes upon or harms copyrights;

  • Use the forum simply for attention seeking (ie: leaving GoneTooSoon, freezing memorials, removing your garden);

  • Discuss users or sites that you think may not be genuine - please report these to a member of the Admin Team.


Please Note

The above is not an exhaustive list. Any forum content that the GoneTooSoon Admin Team deems to be inappropriate for a memorial website will removed. This may also result in the member being temporarily or permanently banned from the forum. For serious breaches of our Terms of Use, a member’s account may also be deleted and access to the site barred.


In all forum matters, The GoneTooSoon Admin Team’s decision will be final and no correspondence will be entered into.