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THINKING OF LEAVING G.T.S

I HAVE THOUGHT THIS THROUGH A THOUSAND TIMES BUT STILL FIGHTING WITH IT IN MY HEAD, THE PAST 12 MONTHS SEEM TO BE JUST A FIGHTING BATTLE WITH MY SEIZIOURS AND THE MEDICATIONS THEY PUT ME ON THAT THEY SWAP AND CHANGE WHEN SUITS THEM, I AM IN AND OUT OF HOSPITAL, YOU LOVILY PEOPLE HAVE ALWAYS BEEN THERE OVER THE YEARS FOR MY ANGEL NICOLA AND I JUST CAN NOT BE ON HERE LIKE I USED TOO, I AM WAITING TO GO INTO SHEFFIELD HOSPITAL AND HOPEFULLY THEY WILL BE ABLE TO GET THEM UNDER CONTROL. I JUST FEEL IF I LEAVE HERE THE PREASURE WILL BE OF ME OR MAYBE I SHOULD JUST FREEZE NICS SITE UNTILL IM MORE WELL I JUST DONT NO WHAT TO DO TO BE HONEST, ANY SUGGESTIONS? LOVE SHIRLEY XXXXXX

February 23, 2012
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RE: THINKING OF LEAVING G.T.S

shirley most of us on here feel like removing our angels i have thought of it millions of times...i no how u feel i was the same wen i couldent get on
here for months when i was poorly...but you have your helpers & you have all your lovely friends who will be always here for you & nicola & light candles for her .. you dont have to freeze nicola site you just take has much time off from here that you need & be asured nicola will be well look after by us all..i realy hope & pray you dont leave this site I will certainly miss you & nicola.s gorjus shineing bright smile... you & nicola will always be in my thoughts shirley... you have been such a good friend to me .. my prayers are with you shirley & hopefuly the drs will get your medicatin write for you soon... wat ever decision you make my lovely friend
always remember you & nicola will have a special place in my heart
LOVE & HUGS SHIRLEY LOVE YOU BUNCHES XXX LINDA

February 23, 2012

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I've had time off over the last 2 years, not for long but still I left Dan in the hands of my friends. But I know if I had to leave for a long time then I would freeze it, just because it would probably stress me out.

I don't really know what to say because it's your personal choice, you will do what's right for you....but I do hope you don't leave.

I will always visit Nicola's page, and If you freeze it I'll wait for your return : )

Sending much love and a hope you get well soon xXx

RE: THINKING OF LEAVING G.T.S

your friends are here for you shirley and will look after nicola till you get better take care lots of love cathy xxx

February 23, 2012

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Shirley,
take all the time you need, we will all look after your angel nicola,
we just want you to get better, hopefully the docs will come up with the right medication to help your illness, take care hunni,
~x~with love always Gael.~x~

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hi Shirley you need to get well first.YOUR HEALTH IS NUMBER ONE.PLEASE DONT FELL YOU NEED TO COME ON EVERY DAY.I HAVE NOT COME ON EVERY DAY SINCE FEB.I HAVE HAD MANY FAMILY PROBS AND HEALTH PROBS.I DONT FELL PRESSURISED TO COME ON EVERY DAY TO LIGHT CANDLES.YOUR TRUE FRIENDS WILL UNDERSTAND.NO ONE CAN GET ON TO LIGHT CANDLES EVERY DAY.OUR ANGELS ARE LOVED IF WE COME ON OR NOT.TAKE CARE SHIRLEY.DONT FREEZE YOUR MEMORIAL.JUST MAKE THEM PRIVATE FOR YOUR FRIENDS ONLY.THATS WHAT I DID.YOUR NICOLA WOULD WANT YOU GETTING BETTER.WHEN I COME ON I WILL ALWAYS LOOK AFTER HER FOR YOU.XTAKE CARE XLOVE ALWAYS X

February 23, 2012

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I will miss you and Nicola if you go Shirley,but you need to do whats best for your health hun, i will always light for Nicola when i come on i know it,s not everyday anymore,Your friends will understand whatever you decide,take care hun ,love Linda x♥x

February 23, 2012

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I was so devastated to come on tonight and see that you had frozen Nicola's garden Shirley, but if it's how you feel I'm always with you,
I will miss you till you come back, all my Love Mary xx ps hope you get the treatment you need and get well soon xx big Hugs Mary xx

February 24, 2012

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hi shirley hope that you find the right descision hun, we all know you will be missed and your nicola, stay healthy hun thinking of you xxx

February 24, 2012

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Hi Shirley.I dont get on every night scince my brother with learning difficulties who lives with me broke his foot 14wks ago.Its not mending as it should.was at hospital,thurs,fri,going back mon.
he carnt walk on it.But when i do come on i always light a candle for your angel,so please dont keep it frozen.Hope you soon get sorted love and hugs xxx

February 24, 2012

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Awwww Shirley , you have to do what ever is best for you......we will all look after Nicola for you, and we would never expect anything in return.....Please take care Shirley and get well soon....i know you will make the right choice.... but do whatever your heart tellsy ou.

love always Jude. x

February 24, 2012

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