I think GTS is fantastic :) i love people leaving candles,pictures and tributes etc for my loved ones.
What i really don't understand (especially with the new site) is why so many people get angry with kind people taking time out of there own time to light candles etc for your loved ones.I think it's a very thoughtful thing to do.
Why are people so defensive? people are just being kind and im sure mean no harm at all...
This should be a nice place to come to help people through their grief etc.
Alot of people on here are so angry etc with things that are not really important.
At then end of the day The love you have for your loved one will never change etc no matter what happens on here...
I hope people can understand what im trying to say.Hope that all makes sense lol.
September 15, 2008
RE: Sorry if im speaking out of turn....
I have been talking about this recently wih some freinds
We have seen ALOT of people complining onf orums about people lighting candles or addin them as freinds when they dont know them
I honestly think it is petty
his is a public site if u dont want people to light candles etc dont make one it is simple! If they want a place that they can only be the ones to light a candle then put one up in the front room
Or use one where u have to pay an dmake it passowrd protected
I think this is a fab servive and people should think before they go off on one as i know one mum who got very upset when adding somone as a freind and the other person wrote back with no i dont know you and then went about saying she thinks the person is fake!
No need for it , im sure they would be more upset if they set a page up and no one ever wrote a tribute or lit a candle , i for one would
Id like to thank all who say hello to my precious girl
September 18, 2008