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not feeling gud

hi,does anyone else feel like me.why wen a family member die does so much bitterness cum out.we cant live on regrets,we all wish we cud have done more,but why take it out on each other.no1 hurts any more than the other why want glory wen so much pain? im so sick of leaving tributes and getting sarcy comments back from family members,had2 delete so many its mad.ive lost so much so soon you wud think we wud learn,and come together but so much bitterness.mam,dad and my dear sister angie-you are all in a better place now,love you forever but wudnt wish you back to this world.xxx

Gerry Roe

July 4, 2009

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RE: not feeling gud

Gerry so sorry for your losses like you ive lost my mam dad and sister but havent had problems with my family we all still really close im so sorry you are going through this if you have made their gardens put approvel on then you can read candles and tributes before they go on and you can decide if they are allowed xxx

Christine Gunter

July 4, 2009

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We always feel guilty Gerry dont know why as i could not have done any more than i did for my mum and dad .I dont have trouble like you though with tributes as only me and my daughter put in my sites my brothers think i am mad for putting them on .But we all greave in different ways its hard really but i hope you family soon all get back together and stop arguing as it dont bring your loved ones back .love Anne xx

Anne B

July 4, 2009

RE: not feeling gud

omg how tragic
people just dont know how to handle grief
just try to take each day as it comes
keep writing your thoughts it does help xxxxx
My son was killed nearly 2 years ago
My husband couldn't sopport me just didn't know how we are now seperated so much hatred was said at a time i really didn't need it
Hope things get better for you and be good to yourself xxxx
Jane x

Jakes Mum

July 4, 2009

RE: not feeling gud

Plus Gerry all my family are very close we never argue or anything xx

Anne B

July 4, 2009

RE: not feeling gud

I believe things get said which are'nt meant at a time like this, and we seem to be extra sensitive, do not change your tributes or candle verses, if you really mean them,it is very true we always hurt the ones we love, more so in times of stress.