i just dont want to be here anymore i feel like i have no life to live without my jamie here to share it with
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RE: my heart aches for my jamie to be back
Cheryl, stay strong, Jamie will always be with you.
Nancy x
RE: my heart aches for my jamie to be back
I often feel like this after losing my Stacey in June 08 but the thought that often keeps me going is that she is always with me. She would never ever want me to give up, and I want to make her proud. Remember, each day is a day closer to seeing him. Take care, Denise xx
RE: my heart aches for my jamie to be back
Hi Cheryl, Nancy is right, Jamie is always with you. I feel for you so much, but Jamie doesn't want you to go to him yet. It's hard, but we have to carry on even though our hearts are broken. Thinking of you and sending you a big hug xx
RE: my heart aches for my jamie to be back
you have to find an inner strengt, jamie would not want you to think the way you are, you have to start a new chapter in your life with all your memories that will last a lifetime,be strong and make jamie proud of who you are celebrate his life and remember him with love , take care. xxxx
RE: my heart aches for my jamie to be back
thankyou all for your messages so much,but i have been trying so hard to carry on i really have,but today it just hit me that i cant go on feeling this way its just to hard to get up every single day feeling like this and knowing in my heart the pain is never going away
RE: my heart aches for my jamie to be back
Cheryl Sweetheart try to stay strong I know you are going through hell right now but i am sure Jamie woulden`t want to see you in pain he will be looking after you and always will... all my love Maggie xxx
RE: my heart aches for my jamie to be back
Cheryl Im no good with words but thinking of you
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RE: my heart aches for my jamie to be back
I'm so sorry for you. Just remember he will stay with u always. Just because u can't see him, it doesn't mean he's not there x
RE: my heart aches for my jamie to be back
My name is Cheryl too. I lost my grandson on the day he was born 12-27-08. He was a full term baby, however, he died nine hours after he was born due to complications caused from Meconium Aspiration Syndrome. (He expelled his first bowel movement while still inside my daughter-in-law's uterus.) Babies should not die before a grandparent. It's not the way life is supposed to be. It just doesn't seem like it's in the order of things. I kind of know how you feel. It doesn't seem fair, for any of us to suffer over our loved ones. However, I do believe in God, that there is a SUPREME BEING and only God knows the reason why, babies, children or adults are taken from our lives too soon.
Are you affiliated with any kind of Church? Maybe your priest, minister, Rabbi or which ever is politically correct, can counsel you. When my father died from cancer, May 20, 2005, my mother and I went to grief counseling at a local Catholic Church. We learned how to cope with our loss just by talking about my dad, his life and how he died. Talking helps! You will NEVER forget him but the pain will lighten in time. There are also special experts that deal with grief, the death of a loved one. Talking about a person's LIFE story, the circumstances behind his death with a professional is very beneficial because each time you reflect on his memory, it does get easier. I am sure you have done your very BEST thus far, trying to cope on your own, but it is now time to seek out for professional HELP, and guidance that you need and deserve so you can cope with your loss!
GOD BLESS
RE: my heart aches for my jamie to be back
CRUSE is a very good organisation that provides counselling too. Please keep talking to us on here too as we all have one thing in common - broken hearts xx
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