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grieving for my dog sasha she died 08/01/09

hi everyone i am trying very hard to be strong and cope after my dog sasha past away by a heart attack she was aged 17 i have had her since i was 6yrs old i miss her so much i wish i said bye

January 10, 2009
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RE: grieving for my dog sasha she died 08/01/09

Victoria i know how you feel i have lost 4 dogs in my time and it is very hard you do reaaly miss you dog i have got another now but shes only 7 dreading the day when her time comes at least Sasha will be running free now free from any pain all my love Anne xxx

January 10, 2009

RE: grieving for my dog sasha she died 08/01/09

Hello Victoria,I know exactly how you are feeling even though I lost my little yorkie over 11 years ago I ended up going to see my doctor who said "we treat your loss as though you have lost a child", and that is how bad it feels,We have just lost my darling 3 year old niece 4 weeks ago and all the familiar hurt is back just as raw,If I can give you any advice it would be to read a book called Goodbye Dear Friend by Virginia Ironside,it really helped me,God bless Sasha and you, Margaret. xx

January 13, 2009

grieving for our pets

hi victoria my daughter has just lost princess her cat she took her to the vets to be neutred on 19th of jan came round from that ok but next day a lump was showing under her tummy phoned back the vets took her back next day they drained it within a week came back so took her back on 2/2//09 had op and came round 10 minutes and then gave her oxygen and just passed away we could not believe it she was only 5 months old we are seeking advise to what went wrong we are waiting on answers now.it was a terrible shock the children were heart broken so my daughter had a private funeral for her she has just had the ashes back and she is crying of and on and i am tryimg to comfort herĀ as much as i can.so we know what you are going through. i hope that you all find peace in your hearts one day.

February 13, 2009

RE: grieving for my dog sasha she died 08/01/09

Hi Victoria I'm sorry for your loss of Sasha, it's really hard when you lose a four legged family member. I had my yorky Pepe since he was eight weeks old, he was sixteen when he died. It broke my heart and even to this day I will have a cry over him. Just before christmas we lost Jinks he was our siamease cat and everyone misses him. If you need someone to talk to We are all here.
Take care love

February 18, 2009

RE: grieving for my dog sasha she died 08/01/09

When I had to have my darling dog Chloe put to sleep on the 18th of August 2006, I thought my heart would break in two. I stayed with her until she passed away and its one of the hardest things I have ever had to do. I sobbed the entire time and the day I went to pick up her ashes, I literally couldnt speak for crying so much! The vets practice were brilliant though and understood completely. I still miss her so much even though we have another Bearded Collie now. I am so sorry for everyones loss and know exactly how you feel! Chloe wasnt just my dog she was my best friend!

March 4, 2009

RE: grieving for my dog sasha she died 08/01/09

DONT NO WHAT I WOULD DO IF I WAS TO LOSE MY TO DARLING DOGS I HAD A BIT OV A SCARE WITH BRUNO HE IS 7 YRS OLD AND WAS PEEING EVERY WERE TOOK HIM TO VETS BUT HE HAD INFECTION BUT SORTED NOW THANKFULLY AND JESS MY BABY IS ON 5 MONTHS BRING SO MUCH JOY AND LAUGHTER IN TO OUR LIFES I FEEL FOR U FLOWER LOSING UR BELOVED SASHA

March 7, 2009

RE: grieving for my dog sasha she died 08/01/09

I'm still grieving for my Staffie Jake who I had PTS on Valentines Day 2007 and over 2 years later I still feel like I have a limb missing.That's not a badthing though,just means that we took to each other like ducks to water.

Heres something about Jake:

My Jake had to be put to sleep on 14/2/2007,he was 13yr 7mnth and even coming up to 1 year on there is not a day that goes by when I don't burst into tears at the drop of a hat.I remember bringing him home late August 1993 and he was so small that he could sit all 4 of his paws in my hand(I think he was only 6 weeks old when I got him)I never went abroad when Jake was here,instead we'd just go to a mates cottage in Cornwall and spend our time relaxing,walking on the beach,trips to the pub.1 day I left him in the cottage to take someone out to dinner(the restaurant was 30 yards from the cottage),as I was about to start a lady tapped me on the shoulder and asked if I was such and such,I had NO idea what this could be about so I said that Yes I was such and such.'I don't want to worry you she said' at that moment my heart sank deep into my chest 'but we've got a Staffie outside that we think belongs to you' So out I went and there was Jake within a big crowd of people around him.It turned out that he must of thought i'd left him so he proceeded to charge the cat flap until the whole panel had fell out of the door.He was also with my Grandad at the moment he died of a heart-attack and refused to let a couple of teenagers get close to my Grandad,there must of been something about them that he either didn't like or trust.

April 11, 2009

RE: grieving for my dog sasha she died 08/01/09

If i'd woke up 1 day to find him dead on my bed I would be feeling a thousand times better than I do now,I even called the vet to the house so as Jake didn't expect the worse,as they came in my boy jumped off the settee and made a big fuss of the people i'd called round to kill him.I have 2 other dogs,a 5 1/2 yr Staffie bitch whom I bought for Jake and in May I bought a Bull Terrier as I couldn't of beared the thought of getting a male Staffie and the house was so quiet as Jake wasn't around snoring and farting etc
I just feel so alone witout my little boy,tears are streaming down my face as I type this,the only consolation that I have is that he's buried in the garden and he'll always be alive in my heart.

April 11, 2009

RE: grieving for my dog sasha she died 08/01/09

Hi, my dog Mr Moudie was put to sleep on the 4th April and it broke my heart he had kidney failer we had him for 12 happy years it has left a gaping hole the house is so quiet without him when we left him they were putting him on a drip his wee face looked so sad it was as if he new he looked up at us as if to say help me sadly we had to put him to sleep I find talking to people on this site helps loads the best advise was to get out the house and be with people he will always be part of your life sending a hug Jayne

April 12, 2009

RE: grieving for my dog sasha she died 08/01/09

hiya sweetie,
Last saturday my bruce my beloved boxer died i cried for three days solid,iv been sleeping with his cushions just to get his smell its the worse pain in the world.When i last felt like this was when i was 13 an lost my first boxer sacha,we had grown up together an even used to tell everyone at school she was my sister. Sacha was the reason i ended up gettin another boxer called sacha who i still have now shes nearly 13 an then we bought bruce when she was 5.
The way im dealing with it at the moment is coming on hear an riting things to him lettin him no how im feeling its really helpin at the moment because i feel as though i am doing something for him.Get some of her things together for yourself it makes u feel so much closer to them ,also the love u have for her she will have had for u she will always be in your heart an dreams nobody can take that away from u sending luv to u an the memory of your sasha luv mel xxxxxxx

May 2, 2009
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