Dharma and I live in Johannesburg and my beloved and beautiful 6 year old Dharma was deliberately poisoned by Africans who wanted to break into my cottage to steal while I was at work. They came in the night and hid poisoned meat in the garden. Dharma found it and just a lick was enough to kill her. She was my whole life as I couldn't have children and am divorced and now I feel as if I have nothing to live for. The cottage is so empty without her and I sometimes wonder why I bother going on - there seems to be such evil out there. She was a gentle dog and everyone who knew her fell under her spell. The hardest part for me is that she died alone, and not in my arms.
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RE: Coming to terms with Dharma's murder
oh lin im so so sorry its discusting how anyone could do that to a poor defenceless animal, i have a bull mastiff dog and i worry about her alot as people deliberatly put rat poison around here that my friend lost his dog to rat poison being sumped near his garden, sending a big hug hun xxxxxxx
RE: Coming to terms with Dharma's murder
To the kind person Love My Angels, thank you so much for your message. I hope your dog is safe, what an awful world we live in when we have to worry about people poisoning our pets. I am so sad for your friend, please give him my condolences. Give you dog a big hug from me and treasure her every day. With love from Lin and her angel Dharma x
RE: Coming to terms with Dharma's murder
Dear Lin,my heart breaks for you in your anguish.I can feel your pain your eulogy and candles to your beloved Dharma.I know you feel guilty at not being with Dharma when this terrible evil raised it's ugly head and took her precious life.
Please try and think of the good life you and Dharma had together,no evil on this earth can take these precious memories away from you.Dharma will be with you always.
I am always here if you need to talk just PM me and thankyou also for all the lovely candles you leave for my Hogan,it's truly appreciated.
Love Catherine and angel Hogan xxxxx
RE: Coming to terms with Dharma's murder
hi lin i treasure our lil she always gets her own way and loved very much, Dharma will be running across rainbow bridge to play with all the other dogs including my friends dog merlin and sooty xxxxxxxx
RE: Coming to terms with Dharma's murder
hello lin.i know the pain you are going through the terrible way your dharma died.7 years ago i had a cat called penny she was so sweet and trusting, i put her out one night as i had always done next morning she was always waiting at the door to be let in this morning she was not there, i kept calling for her no answer imagine my horror when i went to the garage and found my penny lying there dead, some evil scum had shot her, all i kept thinking about was what she went through and the guilt that i put her outside.please lin remember you have got alot of friends on gts that will help you through this sad time you have helped me cope with the loss of my beloved shula with the lovely candles you have lit on her memorial.remember lin you are not alone we are here for you.
love carol, angel shula and roscoe.xxxx
RE: Coming to terms with Dharma's murder
My heart goes out to you hunni it realy does,i lost my beautiful springer spaniel Monty he was my boy i loved him so much i still do and i miss him badly just cant imagine what you are going through knowing that yours was deliberatley taken away from you by some evil monster
take care
love always vicky xxxx
RE: Coming to terms with Dharma's murder
Dear Lin
Grief takes time, we never forget we just slowly learn to live with our grief, you have to take one step at a time, please do not feel guilty for not been there, I felt terrible when I lost Perseus 3 weeks before my husband, I could not be there as I stayed in the palliative care unit, I know that not been there hurt inside, still today I cry but it is not our fault.
I wish I could give you a big hug, I know to well how it hurts, like yourself I could not have children, I do not have family here and my dogs are my life
With love
Geraldine
RE: Coming to terms with Dharma's murder
Thank you ALL so much for your kind words and for thinking about me and Dharma. I will get through this but some days are harder than others and then I feel sorry for myself. Your kindness helps so much and is appreciated. Love to you all - Lin and Dharma
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