ive been told that time heals,for me time just stands still,my wife sam got diagnosed with stomach cancer on 28th dec 2008,she sadly passed away just 4 short weeks later,she was 36 yrs old,im 35&we have 2 beautiful girls,who are 13&11,if anything it gets harder&harder,we miss her so much,i feel so helpless at times,i wish i could wave a magic wand&make everything ok,lauren was 13 last week&the only thing she wanted was to just see her mummy 1 last time&i couldnt help her.i cry justabout everyday,i just feel numb&pointless,everythings so surreal.i just cant think about not having my sam next to me ever again,it just wont sink in.we love&miss her so so much
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RE: why
So sorry, I know what you went through my husband died from Stomach cancer 4 months after being diagnosed.
The pain stay with us, we learn to live and go through life however we never forget.
It is one step at one time, we go forwards then backwards again, at first it is a struggle to make it through the day, eventually it become easier but we always have days when we feel so sad, when the memories are so vivid, we miss our love ones so much and wish we could hold our dear ones.
Kind thoughts
RE: why
richard
wish i could answer your WHY.
It is the word i use most in my vocabulary since my dear husband passed away in february this year.
He was my entire life and reason for being and i am left with a life that makes no sense any more.
I am trying to plod on but it is so very difficult.
I wish i could say it gets better.
Where i am at the moment i really am not seeing it but reading back some of the posts it seems we learn to live with it.
You have your children...and I know you are giving them your best...
In my thoughts
annalise xx
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