he promiced me once if he ever went b4 me hed cum back if there was any way he cud.... an he hasent.... im waiting every minute of every day.... for him to come back..
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When my partner died for a couple of weeks i felt him get into bed-but when i went to speak he seemed to dissolve but i felt the warmth of his skin. maybe the dream you had was him coming to say goodbye x
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Kelly our loved ones come to us in dreams hun or leave little signs just watch for them ,it could be a butterfly ,a bird ,a white feather or even a piece of there favorite music ,but our loved ones also need time to heal so maybe you need to wait a little longer, take care x
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Oh Kelly my heart goes out to you,Iknow what your going through my love,nothing at this time will make it any easier,Ionly wish their was .Ilost my husband 14 months ago and it was only 4 weeks ago i had a message from him.You think you cant go on without them but they will help you darling just keep talking to him he can hear you and hes with you at all times.How we all want our loved ones back (if only we could love,my thoughts are with you ,he will contact you when the time is right lol phyllis xx
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hi kelly , i lost my darling bill 12 weeks ago. My mam confessed to me that she had been to a spriitulist yesterday. the reason being was that her friend went 1 week after bills funeral. the spiritulist told her she had a bill with her. andrea did not click at first and kept saying no i dont know a bill she said bill was very insistant saying that she did know him and that he needed her to pass a message on . andrea then realised it was my bill when the spirtitulist said bill had just passed over. he said he was fine and that he was overwhelmed over his funeral and could not believe the turn out you see over 300 people turned up at his funeral. when my mam went to see her again he said i have a bill here. my mam nearly fell off her chair. she explained about him losing weight and that it was a white knuckle ride to get here but he was fine. I plan to go soon to see her. Our 4 year old nephew who bill was very close to actually talks to bill all the time even now after 12 weeks he actually tells my sister what bill talks to him about and that he actually sees bill. he has said that when he dies he wants to be a ghost so he can be with his uncle bill. be patient kelly i too long for my darling to contact me in some way and am sure it will happen soon take care love Jayne xxxx
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Kelly,
As they have all said, he will come back to you and you will know it's him if you open your heart and see. He won't just appear in front of you because he knows that would just scare the life out of you. They come back in many ways, in dreams or fleeting glimpses that you might think wa sjust the light but it will be him. And of course you know he is always with you, always.
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Dear Kelly,
I understand that you want to see him the way that we saw them when they were here with us. I understand that. I lost my husband almost 2yrs ago. But he lets me know that he is here. I will hear a song or one of my boys will say something I know it was him. The hard part is opening the heart. I know that was hard for me. Because I want him beside me and i know that he is but not in the flesh. Our loved ones will talk to us and let us know that we are not alone in this world and they are going to walk with us and help us along the way. That is what keeps me going.
I think as the sun as him kissing me good morning and the moonlight his kisses goodnite. I talk to him everynight before I go to sleep. My heart and love goes out to you. May peace and light be with you and the one that you love.xxxxxxxoooooooo
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my husband spent a horrific 9 months writhing in pain in hospital....and one fine day with tears in my eyes i told him...mark, i release you....please do not hang on for me....but promise me that if u go u will come back for me. He told me, God permitting, he would and he cried tears of relief.
my dearest left this world on 17th february 2009....i am still waiting for him to come and pick me up....
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My husband left 7 months ago, we were apart at the time due to his drinking, etc, but I saw him a week before he died & wished I had taken him back, then perhaps he would still be here, but the time he died unknown to me I reached for a cross & cried, the following morning the police knocked on my door & told me of his demise, they do visit in odd ways, have felt his kiss a few times. He will come to you, take care xxx
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