Lost my Husband on the 28th June this year - my emotions are just all over the place - some days I wake up and feel ok and think i am moving forward then the next day I am struck by overwhelming grief - when will this pain go away? will it ever? my Husband was only 37 - I am 32 - life is so unfair - he was such a beautiful strong person - and now nothingness!!!is anyone out there around my age going through the same that needs to talk?
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RE: Melanoma
hi i lost my darling husband on the 1st feb this year it still seems like minutes ago when it happened bill was 47 ive just turned 38. i thought i was coping a little better then a couple of weeks ago i felt as though i had hit a brick wall and i was right back when bill first died. i have so many different emotions and im sure u will too. life doesnt seem fair does it? i now believe when people say only the good are taking. i sometimes think i have been punished for something. every day will be a struggle for you as for the pain going away i dont think it ever will but i hope that we can learn to cope with it a bit better. i do find this site a comfort because it is good to know that what you feel is normal. my doctor gave me good advice in saying that unfortunally all the emotions - anger, sad,lonely, guilty are all normal and we must go through them to get over the grief. what he told me not to try and do is feel bad for the emotions i am going through. he was right as i constantly feel bad about feeling guilty about little things like going food shopping as i know that bill would not want me to feel this way and would want me to enjoy life for the both of us but it is easier said than done. take one day at a time and always let your emotions out remember you are not alone and i know your darling will be watching over you take care and be strong if you ever want to talk i will always be here love jayne
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