i was with my fiance on the day he collapsed i rang for the ambulance, but to this day i still feel guilty because i feel i didnt do enough to help him.should i still feel like this after four years? i want a new relationship n my life, but when i am in a new relationship they never last because i feel like i am betraying garry. can some one please help me understand why i am having these feelings? thank you in advance
June 8, 2012
RE: i still feel guilty why?!
I was also with my fiance when he collapsed and died. That was nearly six years ago, I just want to say to you that it is okay to move on relationship wise, I too had strong feelings of guilt but by talking about them they became less and less. The feelings are part of grief and loss. I think it is our way of trying to make sense of something that actually we are unable to. The pain has not gone away for me, but lessens over time.
June 10, 2012