I lost my husband who was my soul mate without a doubt we got toghether at 14 yrs of age married young and had 4 lovely children. Just as our lives were feeling totally awesome as our children have grown up and our first grandchild was due to be born in may 07 but sadly 5 feb 07 my husband (and family) were in bed asleep when our home burnt down and my husband was trapped and died in the fire at 38 yrs of age. Although it been 2 years i do not feel i have moved forward i drag myself up to go to work otherwise i wont get out at all,i have became angry at anyone and everyone.I feel totally alone although i have my children my smile my conversations my everything is a fake front because all i feel is anger hurt cheated and depressed. I go to councilling regular but nothing helps me move past my deep dark pain.I want my life back i want my soul mate back i need him to survive this hurt.Will i ever get past these feelings everyone tells me time heals all but i doubt any amount of time can heal my heart.
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RE: I lost my soul mate &my world.How do i survive that?
I'm am trying to say something to help you,finding it very hard as going through what you are and i can only say sorry your suffering,sorry for your loss and sorry the counselling is not helping you.I hope that time does help but i think its very hard to mend a broken heart.You just stay strong for yourself and your family and hope things will get easier.Love and hugs Carol
RE: I lost my soul mate &my world.How do i survive that?
Ah Donna that is so sad,counselling didn,t help me either perhaps it would have if i hadn,t anyone else to talk to,i think you have done right coming on GTS you will find many good friends on here hun all with sad stories to tell but will be there to support you ,take care love Linda x
RE: I lost my soul mate &my world.How do i survive that?
hi donna i never got any counciling when i lost my we angel ishbell on 1981 it was my husband and my friends that helped me through it i never even got any help from my family appart from1 my sister myra who i love very much try and stay strong honey i know its hard we are all here for you honey give me a shout any time love from christine and baby angel ishbell xxxxxxxxx
RE: I lost my soul mate &my world.How do i survive that?
putting my arms round you an giving u a massive cuddle xx
RE: I lost my soul mate &my world.How do i survive that?
I lost my soul mate 7 years ago and I'm still not over it. Some days are easier than others but then there are days that I don't even want to get out of bed. Just hang in there and remember the happy times you shared together. What you should do when your sad is take a deep breath, close your eyes and picture your husbands face, it should put an instant smile on your face. I know it works for me.
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RE: I lost my soul mate &my world.How do i survive that?
I lost my husband 2yrs and 9 months ago we were only married for 4 months we first met when we were both 15 and it took us 30 years to get together he was my soul mate I treasure every day that we had and I agree with Heather about picturing his face I do that all the time and it makles me smile just thinking about all the good times we had together, I am so sorry for your loss, my family and my grankids are what keeps me going, I dont think time is a great healer I think its a matter of we learn to live with it a bit better, My thoughts are with you take care.
RE: I lost my soul mate &my world.How do i survive that?
I know exactly how you feel I'm fiona by the way, I have 3 beautiful children and 1 step daughter how is her fathers double so is my youngest (3yr) My husband died sudenly on the 14 June this year and I don't know where to turn every where I look everything I hear reminds my of him my little girl keeps asking when is daddy coming home and that she wants to give him a big kiss a real one, she falls asleep crying in my arms and when I put her to bed I'm left crying hoping that I will soon fall asleep too, but I don't, I can't eat, sleep I put a big brave face on every time I walk out the door but I afraid that one day the rain will wash ot off and people might see the real me, I know I have to keep it together for the kids, thinking of you hugs Fiona xxx
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