I write poems, cry & don't sleep, anyone else feel this?
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RE: Am I mad, or does it get harder?
Am so sorry, am sure it does get harder in different ways, bitterness ceases & real sadness & loneliness kicks in after a while,
love wendy xxxx
RE: Am I mad, or does it get harder?
its been a year since i lost my partner, he was my soul mate, my whole life. i miss him like crazy everyday. people always say it will get easier, but when? how long am i suppose to feel like this. my life feels like its on hold since that day i lost ash. i feel like im in denial cos i still cant face that i wont be with him anymore and all the stupid little things that remind me of him, like finding his socks or pieces of paper he wrote on, or the marks he did on the wall, all get to me badly.
RE: Am I mad, or does it get harder?
i also lost my jamie six weeks ago now,and i haven,t slept since it happened ,he,s on my mind 24/7.The pain is getting worse with every single day that passes,i just don,t no how i am going to get through this alone,and we are alone once the funeral is over people just get on with there lives,i think they believe we stop grieving then ourselves. god bless you all xxxx
RE: Am I mad, or does it get harder?
Hi hun, it does get harder, then easier, then harder again, people forget, but we don't & never will, take care Wendy xx
RE: Am I mad, or does it get harder?
I lost my Paul 9 months ago, yes I do think it gets harder, I feel everyone else can carry on with their loves as normal, but my life is at a complete standstill, and right now I feel that it's always going to be like this. I still have a lot of days where I cry, I miss Paul so much, I know how you feel.xxxx
RE: Am I mad, or does it get harder?
Hi, I lost my dear husband Johnny to pancreatic cancer in March this year, he is never from my mind, i think breath sleep my dear Johnny, there was something he left me & it was so important! It was something he said not a gift or anything! He said Sheila please when you cry & feel sad! always remember "there is always someone worse off than you" !! in my selfishness I replied "WHO" my dear Johnny replied " There are parents every day every minute being told their child is going to die! "they my dear are worse off than you losing your husband" I was taken aback & thought about what he said, I'm afraid he was right!! so everytime I feel sorry for myself & feel sad, I remember those words that my dear husband said whilst he was absolutely wrecked with pain, what a brave man he was, I'm sure you will agree? so please try to think of those few words when you feel down, I do hope you can & feel a little better, you are not mad love Sheila xx
RE: Am I mad, or does it get harder?
I lost my hubbie 20 months ago and I think that in some ways it does get harder. I miss him so much and seem to notice every couple who are walking hand in hand. We had so much planned, he took early retirement and we moved to be nearer our daughter and grandaughters but within a year he had died. I feel dreadfull feeling sorry for myself but it is very hard not to. I am doing all the things people say you should do to start a new life for myself but my heart is not in it. I have though got very good at putting on the happy face!!!! I am not sure if that is a good or a bad thing.Luv and ((((hugs)))) to all in the same position, Anne xx
RE: Am I mad, or does it get harder?
i lost my husband nearly 11 years ago the first year is always the hardest because you are always thinking of "this time last year" the second year is slightly easier but the pain and grief never goes away you just get better at hiding it from friends and familyi think of my husband daily and miss him daily im on this site daily .our youngest has just left home at the age of 21 all i have is memories but i cope i keep busy i got through the first year by writing a diary putting all my thoughts down no matter how crazy it sounded it was better than bottling it up .... you will survive i promise x
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