I write poems, cry & don't sleep, anyone else feel this?
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RE: Am I mad, or does it get harder?
HI wendy you are not on your own lost my alan 6 months ago and find i seem to go backwards instead of forward cry every day up all night it must be normal because so many seem to do as we do thinking of you
RE: Am I mad, or does it get harder?
100% Normal Sorry but it dont get easy :( ever just harder time is no great healer sorry for both of your losses xxx
RE: Am I mad, or does it get harder?
wendy and sharon
i lost my partner 22 months ago and i still miss him like crazy.
i was told by a lady that it gets worse before it gets better. (she had been widowed bout 8yrs). i didnt want to here this but now when it gets tough i know its normal and its ok to feel like that.
you will never stop grieving but you learn to live with it.
sending you boths hugs
julie
RE: Am I mad, or does it get harder?
Just been on the phone to Samaritans, it gets worse, I wish I could get a big cuddle, please when will this get easier x
RE: Am I mad, or does it get harder?
hi hun i lost my husband 6wks ago and i,m at the stage now where i think its getting worse you are not alone x
RE: Am I mad, or does it get harder?
hi,to everybody myheart&PRAYERS go out to you all,im the same,i lost my wife sam on feb4th,we have 2 girls.sam was just 36,as time goes on i find the pain&the lonliness gets worse&worse,i spend much time on my own now&being alone can be so hard,me&sam were like peas in a pod,high school sweethearts,its so wrong&i feel 4 all of you.im finding it gets harder&harder,night time is so hard,its been 4 months&yet i still cant sleep in our bedroom,crazy i know,i just sometimes just sit here all nite&just cry.god bless all of you
RE: Am I mad, or does it get harder?
hi richard iits not crazy i still dont sleep in our bedroom dont think i ever will its just to painfull to even go in our room thinking of you god bless
RE: Am I mad, or does it get harder?
hi why is life so cruel to us its 18 weeks for my darling bill and it still seems like seconds ago. nobody can do or say anything to take this unbearable pain away from us all. every day is a struggle but i know all of our loved ones would want us to try and go on living and enjoying life for them but it is easier said than done at the moment. love to all xxxx
RE: Am I mad, or does it get harder?
Hi guys, no-one really understands do they? Chris's mum sent me a Victorian locket for my birthday, have got it back from the engravers with our name, have just put his hair, mine & puss's whisker in it, will put photo on the other side when I get to a photo shop, it has made me feel a bit calmer, & feel I can wear us around my neck. Soppy or sad? but I feel closer to him now. Wendy xxx
RE: Am I mad, or does it get harder?
i dont think it gets better in fact i too think it gets harder we lost our son 3rd nov 2006 and its not easier for us so no your not mad love karen xxxxxx
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