i feel like an awful person for thinking it, but im scared i wont love them when they arrive as much as i love my little princess. Rhiain was my 1st child and the love for her was something i had never felt before! its so overwhelming. i dont think i can cope. the twins deserve the world and im scared i cant give it!
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RE: Will i love my twins like i love Rhiain?
My advice would be not to stress yourself when you have another 25 weeks. Try to relax and let your pregnancy happen and by the time your twins come along you will know how you feel. For now it's all to early and your feelings are real but very new. Give yourself time and I'm sure your true feelings of love will come through and your feelings for Rhiain will never change. Take care of yourself and believe that these babies where sent specially for you to love. xxx
RE: Will i love my twins like i love Rhiain?
hello hun, at the moment your feelings are up in the air with losing your little girl but your hormones as well, your princess sent you a gift of love to care and cherish these two special twins when they arrive, you will never stop loving your daughter the way you do hun but im sure you will love your twins just as much when you first see them xxxxxxxxx
RE: Will i love my twins like i love Rhiain?
Kate your heart will never stop breaking for Rhiain but i promise you will love both of your twins darling and you will be able to give them everything just the same has you gave your princess xxxxxxx
RE: Will i love my twins like i love Rhiain?
hi my name is georgina and i am a mother i understand your concerns and worry but you sound like a natural mother to me if you dont mind me saying you have been blessed with a wonderful gift and should see this as blessing and a sign as its ment to be what you need to do is remember how much these little ones need you and how much they will love you and will rely on you to care for them you are there mummy and when you see there little faces plase ty to remember how lucky you are.god bless and good luck to you and your soon to be little monkeys.remembr you can chat to us all here on gts an time.x.
RE: Will i love my twins like i love Rhiain?
thanks everyone. things are just so overwhelming. i miss Rhiain so much! and just want her back so she can be a real big sister to the twins. facing the future as a family without her is too much to deal with.xxxxx
RE: Will i love my twins like i love Rhiain?
Kate darling trust me everything is going to be just fine you know i am a Mummy too and i still am i always will be just like you will always be a Mummy to Rhiain and to your twins no-one said it will be easy but i know you will do it you got it in you sweetheart and many would have given in by now remember you did not! and you will not xxxxxx
RE: Will i love my twins like i love Rhiain?
Kate you won't love them the same way as you love Rhiain but you will love them. Each child is a separate being and is loved in different ways to each other. I had a wee boy 4years after we lost our princess Kelly and now he is 23 I wouldn't be without him but like yourself I was terrified that I wouldn't love him but once they are placed in your arms you will feel the love and Rhiain will help you as Kelly helped me. So don't go getting yourself in a state that's no good for any of you just let nature take its course and everything will turn out alright. Love to you all XXXX
RE: Will i love my twins like i love Rhiain?
Hi, You will love your twins in a special way hunny, afterall they will have part of Rhiain in them I am sure.
Take care and don't worry to much.
Xxxx
RE: Will i love my twins like i love Rhiain?
A mother loves her children unconditionally and I'm sure when your twins are placed in your arms you'll feel lots of love for them. They'll never replace Rhiain but hopefully they'll bring you lots of happiness and you can tell them all about their special angel big sister. I hope all goes well for you, sending lots of love and hugs to you xxx
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