October 26, 1976. I was 19 years old, single and living with my mother. I was so excited to be pregnant, had my nursery set up, all ready to bring my baby home to. I went into labor, went to the hospital and 6 days later came home to an empty nursery. Mother, thinking it was best for me, had given away everything! I have never had a chance to grieve over the loss of my only child. The doctors said they could see no reason for her death. They decided it was best for me not to see her or hold her. There are no pictures of my precious Lindsey.It's been 35 years.......this will never go away, will it?
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i still can't talk to my mother about the loss of my daughter. i would love to know why i didn't get to hold her and why there are no pictures.
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Like you, my son died at 33 weeks gestation. I was never offered the chance to hold or see him. Not even the choice to have a funeral. That was 27 years ago but things have changed now. Mums are encouraged to hols their list babies, dress them and spend time with them and the rest of the family. If only I had that chance now I would grab it with both hands. You're right, it never goes away. God bless you xxx
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HOW COULD WE SAY GOODBYE?
My sweet little baby,
I carried inside,
Was taken to Heaven,
To my surprise.
I didn't get to see you,
Or look in your eyes,
We never ever met,
So how could we say goodbye?
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❃•:*:• Love Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ Vicki •:*:•❃
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
All my love, Vicki
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