I Lost my son Mckenzie-lee On 7th JanuaryThis Yeaar I Am Only 14 But I Wanted a Baby Soo Much And i found out at 12 weeks I Toldd the dad and he was soo happy but people started judging mee thinking i slept wioth everyone when i have onli slept with kenzies dad so it was hard and then the strech marks came and over christmas i became really ill at 15-16 weeks pregnant they rushed me to hospital and put me on a drip and said it was because of my age so i went home when i could keep water down then i stood up and was bleeding and the dovter confirmed miscaraage so i had to go to liverpool for my operation and they took him away from me at 18 weeks bybut they found out he had been ded inside my womb for 3 weeks and at the momment iom soo upset i just cant stop cryin can anyone give advise pleasee xxx
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Pamelaa You Must Bee So Strong Lossing Threee Very Special Angels Am Soo Sorrry ): And Thank You For Supoort xxxx
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bless u ,i want to give u a hug......hope u have lots of close friends and family to talk too,it is really important to share ur feelings otherwise people just think ur ok.....i know i have had 2miscarriages and my daughter died from cot death 5months old,i have a 4year old girl now and she never met tamika but she talks about her all the time....u can never forget an angel nor can u ever fill the emptiness they leave in ur heart,just cos little mckenzie isnt in a pram in front of u doesnt mean he isnt with u......u will always be hs mummy.....and as for ur age a LOSS of a baby is hard to deal with when ur older but never the less it is still a loss...i cant imagine how u feel being so young....just remember it wasnt ur fault and when the time is right and u are strong u wll probably make a brilliant mum...feel free to talk if u like that is what gonetoosoon is for as not everyone understans u know we all doxxxx
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I Have Freinds But They Dont No What Its Likee ): ,, Annd My Mum Just says Im Fakin Missin Him And I Dont No How she Can say It !!! Shes Like it wernt even a baby yet !! Grrr,,, Im Soo Sorri For your Loses ): Aww At Least Your Daughter Nos She Has A Angel Sister (L) xxxx
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well,i lost my baby at 14 weeks and i have photos and it is very much a baby,just a very small version,little face and my babies eyes were open and they were blue,u were 18 weeks so urs was a baby 2.....believe me!no one will understand unless they went through it themselves ....my mum didnt understand,she wasnt even that sympathetic when my 5month old died,three months later she told me i should just go back to work and get over it...heartless.....most of the time they dont know how to handle things and think the best way is to forget about it.....they dont understand u cant,it will be part of u for the rest of ur life,even if u never have children in ur life u have still and always will be a MUMMYxxchat anytime on here or look for me on facebook and i will be there if u ever need someone to talk too,usually strangers help more then friends.....good luckx
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Hi There Katie,
I have just read your story, and I am very sorry for your loss. I too lost a baby last June and still find it very difficult, and I am 27.My little girl was 17 weeks and I called her Bernadette. I think you have had a really hard time, it isn't easy being pregnant at your age never mind having to go through this loss. As for people judging you am I am very sorry about that too, you are young and will probably go on in the future to have other babies but this little one will always be very special and should be.
Be kind to yourself and let yourself heal and be young. When you have a baby your life changes - so give yourself some time too, to have all those new experiences that you can only do when your young and before having babies.
Take Care
Sarah x
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katie i am so sorry for your loss this might sound crazy coming from a man but my girlfriend had a miscarrage today 14/2/10 and i really dont know how to deal with it she is just blocking it out but i am in peices dont let ppl tell you what you want its your life and you can only do what you think is rite my your have all the happyness in the future my heart goes out to you and the babys father
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katie i think you should be so proud of yourself
i was in a relationship at your age and although i didnt fall pregnant at the same age i was 16,
unfortunatly there are so many people that are quick to judge and they forget that you have lost a baby and really your age doesnt matter at all it is a loss wether you were 24 or whatever age!!!
the main thing is to try and talk to someone even if its us guys on here.
you should hoold your head up high and say well i was a mum and i will learn to live with this.
you will have good and bad days but try to embrace them in the same way,i know its not easy
we lost our daughter shortly after birth in may last year she was perfect never a day goes by.....
then in the sept we miscarried and that was twins
two weeks ago we miscarried but we hadnt told many people and its so much harder.
i am not sure there are any answers hunny but keep talking and be proud....thinking of you anytime you fancy a chat x
stephen i think being a man people often forget that you are going through the same losses that your girlfriend is i hope that you do talk in time i know its so so hard but it will happen thinking of you all
michelle
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Michele Thank You For The Advise Mean's Alot Im So Sorry For Your Angels :( I Hope We Can Talk ......Stephen I Know Your A Man But You Lost A Baby Aswel Im Sorry For You'r Loss,,,,Sarah Thank You Fpr All The Support (L) You All MeAn Alot To Mee :D x
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Sweetheart i am so sorry for your loss. I have no advice just remember your family and friends love you so it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks or says about you.
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