MY DAUGHTER DIED 3 1/2 YEARS AGO AND EVERY DAY GOES BY AND I MISS HER EVEN MORE .
DAYS AND NIGHTS ARE SO HARD AND I SO WISH TO BE WITH HER NOW AND I KNOW I CANT CAUSE I HAVE YOUNGER CHILDREN BUT ITS JUST GETTING HARDER AND HARDER AND I FEEL SO ALONE AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO FOR THE BEST ANYMORE
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RE: cant get over my daughters death
Hi Keith,
I'm so sorry for your loss. It has been 2 1/2 years since I lost my son and I too find it hard to live each day without him. You're not alone in how you're feeling. You must be strong for your other children, and show them what grief is, and how to be strong to get through it.
Sending my love,
Mellisa
xx
RE: cant get over my daughters death
Dear Keith,
I'm so sorry for your loss , I lost my son William last year and its really hard to cope, I know how you feel I have had the same thoughts and I also have other children, you just have to be strong and just hope that each day that goes by it may get a little easier..... my thoughts are with you
much love
Debbie xoxox
RE: cant get over my daughters death
hello keith so sorry for your loss my little girl died in 1998 to a brain tumour aged 6 years i to think about her everyday and i always thought i would not get through it but i have done for the sake of my children that doesnt mean i will ever forget her no that will never happen but time is a great healer i just hope it gets easier for you i now have my first grandchild to look forward to in october we know its a boy and the first place i will take him is to my daughters grave to show her her new nephew please believe time is a healer god bless you hope all geets better xx
RE: cant get over my daughters death
I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. My son died 16 months ago and I feel just like giving up, but like so many I have his younger brother to keep me here. I'm trying so hard to be strong as not only did he lose his big brother he lost the mum he was used to. I really can't say it will get easier because like you I cannot see how. Take care of yourself and family. Love Louise
RE: cant get over my daughters death
I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter; I, too lost my daughter ... 22 months ago. You never really 'get over' such a loss - you just find something worth living for and keep on going. If someone had asked me 2 months ago if I felt I had healed at all, I probably would have told them 'no' ... that every day was still a struggle just to get out of bed; then 6 weeks ago a dear friend's daughter was killed in much the same way as my Sarah and I see her going through the same things as I did 22 months ago ... and I see that the blinding pain she is living through has lessened a little for me; so in some ways I guess I have 'healed' a wee bit. You say you 'don't know what to do for the best' ... the best thing you can do for your younger children is to show them that they ARE worth living for, even in the midst of such terrible pain ... and allow them to grieve with you. Sending you gentle Cyber-Hugs.
RE: cant get over my daughters death
Hi keith
I know it is hard for many of us who have lost our children, It is hard i have missed my Daughter for these coming 6 years still have tears but we cant bring them back.But i have seen my Daughter in my dreams, Ihave seen her sitting in her chair beside the door,
Your Daughter is around you lookout for little signs from her, she is probebly sreeming at you. DAD IM OK.
Your Daughter is always around Keith
love and light Elaine xxxx
RE: cant get over my daughters death
KEITH I'M SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, BUT, I'M RIGHT THERE WITH YOU ITS BEEN 8 MONTHS AND I THINK I'M GOING MAD. WALKED PASS MY SON PICTURE ON THE MANTEL AND I ALL HIT ME AGAIN LIKE A ROCK. I MISS HIM SO MUCH. IT BRAKES MY HEART THAT HE'S NOT HERE I AM IN SUCH PAIN. BUT US, AS THEIR PARENTS OF OTHER CHILD REALLY JUST DON'T HAVE A CHOOSE. WE CAN NOT CAUSE THEM ANYMORE PAIN AND GRIEF. SO YOU SEE WE HAVE NO MORE CHOOSES. WE HAVE TO GO ON FOR THEM AND GIVE THEM ALL THE LOVE THAT WE HAVE. SO THEY NEVER FEEL THE PAIN THAT WE ARE FEELING. THATS THE ONLY THING THATS KEEPING ME HERE RIGHT NOW. I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR PAIN. MY HEART AND LOVE GO OUT TO YOU GLORIA
SORRY FOR VENTING, ITS BEEN A BAD DAY
RE: cant get over my daughters death
Hiya Keith and all parents of our lost angels I am so sorry for your loss it is the most awful club that we join when we lose our children but life does get easier and the pain is never far away but it isnt so raw in the early days i just wanted to be with Nick and almost was a few times but as the years have passed i can think of him write about with a smile mainly rather than tears i can look at if without the pain that is still raw to a lot of you now I still have some really bad times but they are a lot less there will always be a ache for them for wanting that hug or the cheesy smile he used to give to beable to hold and smell him to laugh at him but i know that one day when the time is right we will be together again until that day we have something no one else can have we have our own special memories that we can take out and treasure
I hope you all find peace
they are never that far away and i am sure they are watching with love
hope this helps a little
love peace and hugs to you all
Love Kim (Nicks Mum) xxx
RE: cant get over my daughters death
dear Keith,
in a few days it will be 6 months since Alex died, and ive realized already, ill never "get over" it. I am trying to find a way to accept this new life, new me, and accept that most days of my life, there will be moments when it just hits again and again. But also knowing that accepting there is no getting over it is helping. Another thing that is helping, is helping, just being there for and with others. There are so many who have lost loved ones, and we never know how it is til it hits. And that is also when those who really should be there for us, just arent´, so we are here with people who are. Write me anytime you feel down, i will always listen, and for sure always write back. I know the pain of losing a child is the hardest pain in the world, but somehow, i think they would want us to be smiling and carrying on. For me, it´s thinking of my son like that, smiling and saying hey mom, i´m really ok. I hope you find that strength, it is like a rollercoaster ride we didn´t want to get on and now there´s no getting off, just on and on and knowing we still love them as they love us.
Love melinda, mom4ever of Alex
RE: cant get over my daughters death
im so deeply sorry hun ((()))
its been 5 years for me in November and i am finding things easier
i dont think u ever get over it but learn to live with it instead
life in a new way
hugs to you
xxxx
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