My mom died at the beginning of April, (Edwina Batson nee Bant)it was all very sudden & unexpected, I thought setting up this gone to soon site for her would give all the family & close friends somewhere to visit & leave messages, but thats not the case, people just don't seem that bothered, people said it would get easier for me after she died & I know its still early days but I think i'm falling apart at the seams & nobody gives a damn as long as I still look after my home, husband & 5 kids, I know it sounds awfull but I realy can't be bothered to help with the home & kids, all I want to do is sit & cry
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RE: Nobody remembers my mom
So sorry for the loss of your dear mum Carol,sadly some relations and friends can,t seem to visit memorial sites for there own reasons ,i,m sure you will find many dear friends on here who will support you hun,you are still grieving Carol you are bound to feel the way you do,just take one day at a time and find comfort with the friends on this site,take care hun love Linda x
RE: Nobody remembers my mom
Hi Carol so sorry about the loss of your mum.I am sure your mum is not forgotten.Your feelings are natural and i am sure all of us on this site have felt the same way at some point. There is no time limit to how long you grieve it is early days yet,give yourself time take every day as it comes and use this site for support.There is always someone ready to listen.
thinking of you,take care
Jackie x
RE: Nobody remembers my mom
Hi Carol - I know what you mean, as I am surprised that so few of my Rachel's friends and other family visit her site. But as Linda says there are lots of lovely people on here who understand how you feel, and your mum will never be forgotten.
Love Sue x
RE: Nobody remembers my mom
Thankyou to you all, your words of comfort are so lovely to hear, & lots & lots of thankyou's to everybody that has left candles & messages on my moms site, it means such a lot to me
x carol x
RE: Nobody remembers my mom
You are welcome Carol,please remember we are here for you hun,anytime you need a chat about your mum ,there is always someone here for you ,she won,t be forgotton x
RE: Nobody remembers my mom
I hoped my family would all visit my mums site but only my sister and i light candles for her. There are lots of lovely people on here that will light candles for our angels. I have added your mum to my garden...i have copd as well xxx
RE: Nobody remembers my mom
DO NOT THINK THAT PEOPLE HAVE FORGOTTEN YOUR MUM WE ALL GRIEVE IN DIFFERENT WAYS AND SOME CANNOT SHOW THIS OUTWARDLY OR PUT IT INTO WORDS BUT I AM SURE SHE IS REMEMBERED FONDLY I,M SO SORRY THAT YOU FEEL THAT YOU ARE UNABLE TO COPE AT THE MOMENT BUT PLEASE BELEIVE ME THAT ONE DAY YOU WILL FIND YOURSELF SMILING AT A MEMORIE OF HER ALTHOUGH AT THE MOMENT YOU WILL NO BE ABLE TO DO THIS I COULD NOT BE BOTHERED WITH ANY THING AFTER THE LOSS OF MY GRANDSON AND SPENT MOST OF MY TME LYING ON THE SOFA THE SHOCK OF IT ALL TO MUCH TO BERE AND THIS WENT ON FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS YOUR MOM IS STILL WITH YOU IN SPIRIT SENT WITH LOVING THOUGHTS AND A HUG XX ROBS MAM AND WAYNES NAN (I WILL GO OVER NOW AND LIGHT A CANDLE FOR YOUR MOM)X
RE: Nobody remembers my mom
Carol i am so sorry for your loss honey I lost my mother when she was only 36 and my big brother last year and not one of my family have lit a candle for him it doesen`t mean they love him less or miss him less than i do it is just that they feel they dont need to visit a memorial site to remember him by.
XXX
RE: Nobody remembers my mom
hi my name is georgina and i am sorry for you loss i lost my dad and brother in the space ov 18mths i understand your pain but pls believe me its true wen people say every one copes in different ways i no it may seem that way and not every one is good at opening up so people cant always talk or share feelings some people even shut it out and shock forms in different ways it can take anything from mths to years to go on gone too soon is hard and painfull and not some thing that every can face that doesnt mean she isnt loved or missed please give them time as they will all have there own found memories.but what really matters is what your mum was to you and how you remember her going on her website is a wonderful and brave thing.x
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