My mum has been gone nearly 4 months and since she has passed I do not feel it getting any easier for me.
I Miss her everyday of my life to not see her again is breaking my heart.
RE: MISSING MY MUM
i know the feeling but believe me it does get better never goes and you will miss her everyday but you will start to think of happy moments with her i was 6 when mine past im now 21 and am a mum my self and i still think of my mum and know she would be proud,
hope you feel better soon x
RE: MISSING MY MUM
sonya so sorry for the loss of your mum, i lost my mum 2 years ago and my heart broke , the physical pain was just too much and i never thought i would cope without my mum , but two years on i am coping and it has got easier, she is my first thought in the morning and my last at night i miss her terribly still , so for you it is still early days and you will feel like that it hasnt gotten easier but believe me time is a healer , just take each day as it comes and in time the pain will lessen and your love for your mum will grow even more . x
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Hi Sonia
I am so sorry to hear about your Mum. My Mum died suddenly last June and my heart is still breaking, but if I can give you any advice, I would say don't be afraid to grieve. I threw myself into my work and have spent the last 8 months in total denial. Reality hit me a couple of weeks ago and I am now off work with depression, on medication and really not coping. Its as though she only died yesterday.
Deal with your grief now and take one day at a time, don't try to be strong or hide your feelings.
My thoughts are with you
Yvonne xx
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Thanks Yvonne for you reply those words have brought me comfort to make me realize what I need to do next.
Get help and support now before for me it gets out of hand.
So thanks again.
Sonya.
RE: MISSING MY MUM
no pain like it.i lost my mumon the 16th of may.lifes unbearable without her.am in a dark place right now.and it aint nice.so know how your feeling bless you xxx
RE: MISSING MY MUM
Thanks for your reply to me.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss if you need me I am here ok.
My advice to you is keep talking to someone how you are feeling ok that was my mistake i kept it in and in the long run it did not do any good for me.
Take Care and Hope to hear from you Soon Trish and again I am sorry for your loss.
RE: MISSING MY MUM
Sonya, It's been 2 yrs since my mum has gone, we were so very close, she was 84, I still can't believe she is not here, there is nothing like a mum!
I am here if you need, just think of all the lovely times you had with your mum, she would want you to happy.
So sorry for the loss of your mum x
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