My Dad passed away on the 31/04/12 he suffered a massive stroke and bloodclotting in his lungs,im finding it really difficult coming to terms with it as i lived with him with my 2 sons.There isnt an hour of the day were i dnt think of him i feel as if my hearts been ripped into a million pieces xxxx RIP DAD xxxxxxx
RE: Missing my Dad xxx
My dad passed away on 6 August 11 and my mum 9 October 11. Almost 2 months apart. I miss them both so much, the pain never goes away. Inside I feel like I am dying. I like to think about the happy times and on a few occasions I have found a smile creep onto my face when I have thought about something mad they have both done together.
I would say time is a healer and everything else that people say when you have lost someone close but time doesnt heal. I have learnt that I wont see them today or tomorrow and nor the day after. I dont look any further forward than that. Its easier to take it a day at a time.
RE: Missing my Dad xxx
Thankyou for replying to my post, i lost my mum 26 yrs ago time isnt a healer i miss my mum as much today as back all those yrs ago now my dads gone its double pain hope u find some good in this website ive found it very comforting when i joined a few yrs ago step by step day by day xxxxx
RE: Missing my Dad xxx
I lost my dad 22 years ago when i was 17 years old and my mum 6 weeks ago. I've got used to my dad being just a memory but there are still times i cry. My mums death has hit me much harder as i've become very close to her in the last 22 years and i now don't know how to live without her. I hope that one day I will be able to think about her as i think about my dad but right now that seems a long way off. I still go to pick up the phone and call her. From my experience time doesn't heal but it does give you the strength to deal with it better (i hope)
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