Not wanting to sound as if this is about me. My Daughter lost her baby boy last October 2008 and she was 32 weeks pregnant. I have tried umpteen times to cuddle her and support her but it is like she has put a barrier between myself and her. I didn't want her to go through this pain and I have been blamed as the reason for his death simply because my Mum had a few still births and miscarriages. She even told me I should have had a still birth with her. I know she is hurting very much and Love her and miss my other Grandson. I don't want people hating me. We have also had a falling out and was accused of being a Liar and a thief. Sorry about this. MCM
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RE: Loss of a Grandson
Hi Marija, it is so difficult when a daughter loses a child, It is the one thing we can't kiss and make better for our children, I know it's hard but my advice is don't try and make her talk if she doesnt want to, she might find it easier to talk about her feelings to someone less close to her
Some time people do kick out at the ones closest to them, give her time, I'm sure she really doesn't mean what she said. xx
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I wish I hadn't added this new thread I have just made things harder for myself. I miss my daughter now but if she reads what I have put she will hate me even more, By the time she reads this and is finished with me I may as well be dead. What have I done? I can't sleep now. Also being on here and being awake my Husband won't be very Happy. He is not my daughter's father and he knows this has upset me. She has another family now and I'm not jealous I just don't think i'm good enough for them or her. Thank You for caring. Marija
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Marija the office number for admin is on the sign in page. If you ring them tomorrow and ask them to remove the thread they will. Love Ingrid. xx
RE: Loss of a Grandson
Darling i lost my daughter in march 08 and i block my mum out of some things i try 2 be strong so she doesnt worry but deep down im not but i wouldn ever tell her that ,
Just wanted 2 sen u my love xxxxxxxxxx
RE: Loss of a Grandson
Dear Katrina Thank You for your reply,I am sorry for your loss and i understand what you are saying. One of the other reasons we are not talking is I was looking after her house in February whilst she went on holiday to Tunisia and this involved a dog and a cat. The weather was not very nice if you recall and her cat went missing. I went out all hours looking for her but never found her. My Son came to pick me up from there to go and see his new flat and didn't come into the house. He was also accused of stealing the cat and because he said he hadn't got her. She blamed me and said that I had her. She also said that if anyone rang for her I was to say she had gone to the North East of England ie: Middlesbrough to visit her father's grave but she hadn't! She then accussed me of being a liar and a thief and because I asked if she wanted to get rid of the cat I would have her, but she said it wasn't her cat but my first Grandson's cat and his step brother's and his dad's cat, I wouldn't steal a cat because I have one too and I know what I'm like if he goes out for too long. Also I lost a cat many years ago and wouldn't put her through that. Sorry about this. I know you don't know me but I have just poured out my feelings to a stranger and I know what they say about being able to talk to someone else.Marija
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my son died 9 months ago and his granny is heartbroken to make matters worse her only son Andy's dad has not spoken to her since the day of the funeral because he was not centre of attention I have told her that she needs to make her peace with him no matter was he did or said as he is her son personally I hate the man but I wish I could do something to make her feel better
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