I lost my younger sister on the 30th April and i still feel like it should never of happened she was only 37 and at this present time we still do not no why she died. we are awaiting a coroners inquest and that is as painful as losing her. Not a day goes by when i sit and think why her, she wsa so full of life even though she had her problems. What makes it worse is that he ex goes on gts and say how much he misses and loves her, but he divorced her. He signs himself as her husband and that really cuts me to the quick. My sister was beautiful and her miss her people keep telling me that time a great healer but it still hurts, it hs has only been 3 weeks and the painis the same today as it was on that day, Mum and Dad are finding it hard and we try and keep going for each other but we stillfind time to cry either together or apart. The days are so different now I keep expecting to here from her as she used to phone or i would phone her but no call comes, i miss hearing her voice and seeing her smile. I keep wishing she was here back with us enjoying life
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RE: Loss of A dear Sister
Sara I feel for you hun My sister was murdered and I feel the same there isnt a day going by that I dont think of her. Its so hard when you lose someone you love and all the more for you hun because you dont know why it happened. Am here if you ever want to chat hun xxxxxxx Sending you lots love and Hugss xxxxx
RE: Loss of A dear Sister
Sara my heart goes out to you, i to lost my younger sister 6 mths ago & im heartbroken, i miss her every day & always will. Thinking of you and your family with love. xxx
RE: Loss of A dear Sister
oh love my heart goes out to you i know exactly what ur going thru,i lost my younger sister as well in august 2008 she was only 37 and it was very sudden and unexpected,we had to wait for the answers too n its something i dont think i ll ever get over,i think of her day and night,i dont think we.ll ever get over this,i know its hard,u will get ur answers...my love to u and ur family and if u ever want 2 chat then im a good listener ok...losing a loved one like ur sister or daughter is such a terrible thing and its all about time...big hug xxxx
RE: Loss of A dear Sister
hi sarah,my name is theresa im frm dublin,ireland! my heart gos out 2 u+ur family,my big sis died 2 year ago in london i was tere with her,she was 39, we no why she died,(drugs)+i still not over it+dont think i ever will,god it must be unbearble not known why she died,my taughts+prayers are with u+ur family,+ wen every1 kept telling me that time is a healer i felt like boxn tem didnt tink any1 understood what it felt like,but pet i promise u a in time u will feel d shadow liftn slowley+u will ave ur bad days+ please god wen u+ur family do find out why she died+d inquest is over,she will rest in pease+ul ease in time 2,
RE: Loss of A dear Sister
to all those who have sent me messages I Thank you all for your kind thoughts and words. I still find each day very hard as there does not seem to be any closure on anything that we do. I try hard to be strong for my parents but this only makes me more sad and i wish my sister was still with us all, the children miss her so much to my youngest nephew does not understand and when we ask him where is Auntie he say gone too the moon which makes us all smile. My sister was the life and soul of evrything we did as a family always making the most noise and getting the children into trouble it does not seem right when we do things as a family as she should be here with us, i still cry most days and just looking at her on GTS makes me wish she was back with us all. We still have no answers as to why she died and that just drives me mad but hopefully in time we will get to know. Her ex still gets on my nerves going on here saying how much he loves and misses her. I just wish he would just go away never to return but no such luck. Thank you once again for all the support, thinking of you all.
Love Sara xxxxx
RE: Loss of A dear Sister
There is something so special about having a sister.. I mean i love my brother to bits, But I always imagined my sister being beside me when i got married, having children at the same time.
It rips you apart
you imagine your parents.. but not your sister.
I lost my sister 3 years ago when she was 19 years.
When i see or hear something funny, I still think for a split second - I must tell Teresa that! - then it hits me again, like a punch in the stomach.
It has gotten a little bit easier to cope day to day over the last 6 months. In some ways I think having to be strong for other people helped me get through the early days. then getting creative and keeping her memory alive in different ways continues to help me through my grief.
I hope you have great family and friends around you to comfort you when you need it, take care.
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