I lost my Mum 7 weeks ago. I had been her Carer for the last 5 years while she was living with us and she was in poor health during the last few years with Leukaemia, but went downhill from February when she had a stroke and lost her mobility. She then had to be hoisted everywhere which she hated. It was very hard seeing her like this and I wish I could just take all her pain away. Sadly she lost fight for life and I now miss her so much. There is a big hole in my life now and I don't know how I am ever going to fill it. I can't concentrate on anything and I am thinking about her all the time. I am finding it very hard to take in that she has gone and I am never going to see her again. Everyone keeps telling me that it will get easier, but I find it very hard to believe at the moment.
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RE: Loosing my Mum
hi freda so sorry to hear about your mum i lost my mum 3 months ago i miss her so much its like a physical pain friends tell me that it does get easier but that seems impossible at the moment ,i still dont believe shes gone dont know if i ever will .take care freda sending you a big hug x
RE: Loosing my Mum
Freda my thoughts are with you.I lost my mum 3 years come febuary on her birthday.I helped my dad care for my mum & as you say its not nice.
Loads of love to you.xx
Love lesley xx
RE: Loosing my Mum
Hey Freda, I'm sorry to hear about your mom. I lost mine in May and it's been so hard for me. I'm only 18 years old and people always thought of me as the strong person because I didn't cry, but people just don't know how much I grieve her. My mom was my hero and bestest friend and Can never get that back. Mom's are special to us because we know them all our lives and it doesn't get easier emotionally it only gets harder but at the same time it gets easier to keep your composure in front of others. I would give anything to have my mom back at full health but my mom passed away from stress, so I know she's in a better place now that she doesn't have to worry or suffer anymore.
MISS TRACEY SOLOMON EVERYDAY
RE: Loosing my Mum
i lost my mum 4 years ago i were only 14. i didnt know what to do or who to turn to, it was hard due to having a little sister 10 at the time i had to brake the news to her. it does get easier in time.. dont get me wrong i still think about her all the time and have the silent tears.. i have got a book with a photo of my mum and still to this day i write in that book all my feeling about loosing my mum.. try this hope it helps you as much as it has helped me xx take care xx
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