I lost my Mum 7 weeks ago. I had been her Carer for the last 5 years while she was living with us and she was in poor health during the last few years with Leukaemia, but went downhill from February when she had a stroke and lost her mobility. She then had to be hoisted everywhere which she hated. It was very hard seeing her like this and I wish I could just take all her pain away. Sadly she lost fight for life and I now miss her so much. There is a big hole in my life now and I don't know how I am ever going to fill it. I can't concentrate on anything and I am thinking about her all the time. I am finding it very hard to take in that she has gone and I am never going to see her again. Everyone keeps telling me that it will get easier, but I find it very hard to believe at the moment.
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RE: Loosing my Mum
Lo único que te puedo decir es que tienes que pedirle mucho a Diosito y espero que estés bien... el tiempo ayuda mucho
RE: Loosing my Mum
HI FREDA
BLESS YOU LOVE, I KNOW HOW YOU ARE FEELING, I LOST MY MUM 6 YEARS AGO AND I STILL MISS HER,
IT MAY FEEL LIKE THE HURT WILL ALWAYS FEEL BAD BUT IT DOSE EASE A LITTLE,
I AM NOT GOING TO TELL YOU IT WILL STOP ALL TOGETHER COS IT DOSENT,
THINGS WERE A LITTLE DIFFERENT FOR ME AS I AM THE DISABLED PERSON,
EVEN NOW WHEN I AM IN PAIN I WANT MY MUM, BUT I THINK WE ALL WANT ARE MUMS WHEN WE HURT,
I KNOW ITS HARD AND IT WILL TAKE TIME,
I AM SENDING YOU LOTS OF LOVE AND A BIG HUG.
TAKE CARE FREDA
LOVE TINA XXX
RE: Loosing my Mum
Hi Freda,
So sorry to hear all your sad news.
I lost my mum 15 mths ago and i cried every day for a year.
How you're feeling at the moment was how i felt for a year.
I am learning to cope without my mum, although difficult as she was also a friend. I still can't believe her passing even now.
You take care.
Love Jennifer
RE: Loosing my Mum
Sorry to hear about your mum ,i lost my mum 4years ago i was abroad at the time she wasnt even ill wich was hard to except that she was gone.It does get easier, as they say you never get over it you just learn to live with it take care xx
RE: Loosing my Mum
loseing my mam was the awful thing that could ever happen to me she was my bestest friend she was my every thing. i lost her on valintines day 09 me and my brother found her we are so gutted i had to stay very strong for my brother and my kids coz thats what my mam would of wanted but sumtimes i cry infact all the time just about but when am bye meself so nobody noes what am going throw i loved my mam she was my life love kirby
RE: Loosing my Mum
i lost my mom 13 years ago she was my mom, my friend, my everything and my world was threw upside down completely - i still go to call her on the phone, i still think she will be sat in her chair. the pain never goes, the tears still flow but you get by by living one day at a time and take the offer of support from friends and family, my tribute on gone too soon helps me, everyone copes differntly but you will find a way of living with the loss. my heart goes out to you, you will be in my prayers xxxxxxx
RE: Loosing my Mum
Hi Freeda,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I lost my own mum 9 months ago and I can honestly say that I dont think a Day has gone by when I hav'nt cried a little sometimes alot. But occasionally I have good days where the crying is less and the happy is more, if you know what I mean. however well meaning people come out with all this 'time is a great healer' stuff as they dont know what else to say.
But as my friend said to me you only get one mum its a different type of grief as she is one of the only people who knew you your whole life. Take care xx
RE: Loosing my Mum
I lost my mum in jnuary,I know that feeling,its one of the hardest.
sending you my love xx
RE: Loosing my Mum
i have just lost my mum two weeks ago and every day i cry most the time alone has im trying not to upset my kids even more .my whole out look on life is totaly diffrent now i feel like a diffrent person aswell .sending my love x
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