i lost my mum suddenly 6 days ago. most of the time i am numb but sometimes i go completely hyper, laughing and joking. i then catch myself and feel guilty for it. is it wrong? it is so soon after her passing and i dont know whether i am just a bitch and uncaring. HELP.
krissy
RE: is it wrong?
hi krissy ur not a bitch & i bet ur mum would be so proud of the way u are dealing with things. I lost my mum 4weeks ago & yeah i have my bad days where i do nothing but cry then i have days were i just remember that my mum wouldnt want me sittin about gettin upset & try my hardest 2 get on life. we deal with this in our ways so dont think ur doing something wrong when u laugh or joke its ok.Take care & keep strong God bless you x phyllis x
RE: is it wrong?
thanks phyllis, you've made me feel loads better and you are right. she used to hate fuss and bother so i'm sure she wouldnt want us to worry or feel sad for too long.
krissy x
RE: is it wrong?
Hi Krissy,
Firstly i'd like to say how sorry i am to hear about your mum.
Your not in the wrong. Your mum would want you to be happy.
xxxx
RE: is it wrong?
hi krissy sorry to her about you mum i wrote on here not so long ago aswell i was the opposite didnt cry so on you laugh because its a shock and thats the way your body is dealing with it its been nearly eight weeks since my mums death and i no she wouldnt wont me being any diffent that what i was when i was with her dont get me wrong miss her like crazy spent every day with her but mum hated fuss and me crying so im going on as she would of wished me to its hard but i no shes looking down saying thats my girl any time you need a friend just email me xx
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