3 of my sisters very close to me died and i am now really frightened
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RE: how do i cope with 3 dead sisters
Amber i am so sorry to hear of your losses. I've no answers for you, Ive lost one sister and ive struggled. if you have a faith then trust God to see you through this incredibly difficult time. If not, maybe a support group?
RE: how do i cope with 3 dead sisters
hi my name is georgina i am so very sorry i have neva lost a sister but i have kost my brother and dad and i no that the pain is one no one can shift or understand unless they have been through the same or experienced some loss in the way ov some one close to them i no this sounds like some thing you must ov heard so mant times but the dearh ov my brother and dad was within 18mths ov each other and it made me so ill i was turning up at the cemetery at all hours was hearing my dads voice and people said time is a healer and i felt i could scream i was put on anti depressants and put under the mental health like i was crazy but the more i talked to my counciler and wrote my feelings down please believe me it eased i no it shall never go away and there birthdays christmas hits me like they av only just gone but you must go on they are watching ova you i truely believe that dont shut your self of you are stronger that what you no for them for you be strong so to there resting place as that helps you to still care for them try some counciling keep busy but allow your self an hour in the day to grieve to chat to them to wright them a poem but what eva you do keep strong and do them proud.god bless you.xx.
RE: how do i cope with 3 dead sisters
The secret to coping is.. surviving and remembering.
Remember the way they smiled and laughed, their personalities, the moments that made you laugh. These will not stop the pain, but they cushion it slightly.
There is no one that thinks bad of you for being frightened, but don't live your life this way. Is that what your sisters would want? They were taken as it was their time and they're in a much better place now.
I'm always available to talk if you need to, Amber. Take care xxx
RE: how do i cope with 3 dead sisters
Hi Amber, I tried to send this message to you privately but I can´t access your garden.
I would like to say that I am very sorry about your losses, I lost 3 older sisters too so I understand how you feel perfectly. If you ever need a friend to talk, please contact me, maybe helping each other we can walk through this grief.
Love,
Polly xxx
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