Derek committed suicide a long time ago now but I still love him so much. I just wondered if anybody else has been through this, be nice to become friends. Derek was my ex boyfriend and we spoke 3 weeks before it happened. That conversation will stick with me. I am a Christian and now I know it is time to give Derek back to his Heavenly Father and just hope that one day I will see him again. Love you always Derek. From Elaine xx
|
|
RE: Suicide
i lost my only bother in january 2009 he took his own life,the whole family is devastated nothing like this has happend like this in our family before never know why he went a walk with the dog an hanged himself the pain is un bearable didnt think anything cld hurt so much,especially not knowing why then i get angry at him for leaving us the way he did they say times a healer i dont know about that coz it isnt getting any easier x
RE: Suicide
Dear Eleanor, I too lost my only son through hanging he had a row with his girlfriend and I came home and found him behind his bedroom door he was 22. He was my world I lost his dad when he was three in an rta we were so close It took me along time to understand why and if I am honest I still dont.... one thing that helps me is my faith that we will be together again one day... the other thing is that as hard as it is and whatever his state of mind at the time it was a choice he made...he is in a far better place sadly we suffer till we can be reunited.. be strong and know even if we cannot see our love ones we can always feel them in our hearts and memories that no one can ever take away.. in time you get to remember the goodtimes allowyourself to be angry cry cry cry if you need to he was your only brother a massive loss xxxx be strong he wouldn't want you to be sad xxx
RE: Suicide
my partner took hes own life in nov 08 and left me and 5 children who he adored.ive gone through pain,guilt,anger,and so many whys....at the moment the pain isnt getting any easier but thankfully i have my children that keep me strong.my thoughts are with everyone whole has sadly lost someone through suicide xxxxx
RE: Suicide
hi sweetheart my name is georgina i am sorry to hear about your loss this will never truely go away but ease with time and then what we do is learn how to live with it i no its hard and even more so under the conditions ov his passing but you have got to be brave now and be strong as you no life is very short and we get one shot at it visit his resting place and have a good chat anything you want to say and believe me he is listerning keep your mind busy before you leave his resting place tell him whay you have planned for the day but you must go on seek the help ov a counciler and i m always here god bless you
RE: Suicide
hi sweetheart my name is georgina i am sorry to hear about your loss this will never truely go away but ease with time and then what we do is learn how to live with it i no its hard and even more so under the conditions ov his passing but you have got to be brave now and be strong as you no life is very short and we get one shot at it visit his resting place and have a good chat anything you want to say and believe me he is listerning keep your mind busy before you leave his resting place tell him whay you have planned for the day but you must go on seek the help ov a counciler and i m always here god bless you
Create an ever lasting memorial for your loved ones.
Start here »
